I don’t have so much of an issue with her not posting FT although I feel like the secrecy is doing him more harm than good. His name is fully associated with Tamara on google now. I get that prior to his relationship he was probably a private person but by not sharing his identity she’s making people even more curious to search information on him. If she began with, this is who he is, this is what he does, end of story, I don’t think people would have bothered. He’s really not that that interesting. There are photos of them everywhere anyway, apart from on her platform. I think she does it for attention not because she wants to protect his privacy.
This might be an unpopular opinion but I don’t actually mind the guy. He looks like a bear and what not but there’s something nice radiating from him. I don’t know… it is of course hard to judge from tiny, edited snippets.