I stopped following TamTam’s content for a while now, I’ve only been reading this thread every now and then. But since Raspy’s ig is public now, I decided to stalk him a bit today and I kind of have a theory. What if he’s actually *younger* then her? Yes, I know we’ve established he looks like a grandpa in the face, but if you look closely, you’ll notice he has hardly any gray hairs both in his hair and beard, which he would definitely have if he was way over forty like we thought he was. (Take Jurgen (Xenia’s bf) for example—he’s in his thirties, I presume, and you can definitely see gray in his hair in recent pics) Also if you take a look at this picture below, where we can’t see his face, he actually looks pretty young. Like I don’t know, but this doesn’t look like an old person silhuette to me. His thinness, the way he is dressed, his skin, even his hands and arms look young??
Also him being younger would explain so much—TamTam so desperately overfilling and starving herself, trying to appear thinner and younger (so she doesn’t look his mother’s age lol), him being okay with sleeping in her sister’s attic, even him being her sugar baby (if we’re going with that theiry and not vice versa). He probably wears that beard to appear older. I’ve seen many guys who I know for sure are in their twenties with beards as long as Dirty’s and you can’t believe how much it can actually age a man, especially if the beard looks tangled and unkept
The only thing I’m not sure about are the alleged gifts he gets her—I don’t really believe her about that either way, but if he was younger it would make even less sense. But I’m now convinced he might actually be at least her own age or even a few years younger
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