Talia Oatway & Aaron Chalmers #28 talia exposing during the drama, Oakley you are such a little ‘Chalmer’

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I was always under the impression when you film an ad you had to send it to the company for them to approve it before you could post? Looks like they're instigating her chatting tit 😂 also she's just put a story up saying from birth. She must have read here already 😂
 
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I saw this that someone posted in another group I'm on and it made me think of Talia. As well as many others "influencers". I'm the one run ragged usually 🤣




A few days ago while at the pool I watched a young Mama and her little daughter enter the pool area dressed in very nice coordinating swimming suits. The mom, with her perfect loose curls tied up in a coordinating scarf, spent the first few minutes talking loudly on her phone to a friend while her daughter stood waiting to get into the pool. Mom ended the phone call and proceeded to spread out pool toys and sunscreen on a matching towel. Then after finding just the right angle and the right light, Mama pulled out her tripod and took a few selfies with her daughter. Little One asked to get in the pool. Mama said wait and then posed her daughter in front the pool, then going in to the pool and then coming back out of the pool. Little one smiled big and said "cheese" like she'd done it a million times. Then Mama told her she could play. Little One walked in and swam around for a couple of minutes. Mama called a friend on her phone and began another conversation while Little One politely and repeatedly asked "Mama, can you come in the water with me, please?" She was ignored. "Mama, come play with me?" she asked 4 more times. Mama glanced over at her but never got off the phone. After 10 minutes Mama ended her call, collected the sunscreen that was never applied, the water toys that never touched the water, and then her daughter and left the pool.

I sat there thinking about what I'd witnessed for awhile afterwards. I imagined the photos she took being perfectly edited and posted to social media with a caption like "Pool time with my girly! #Makingmemories".

Somewhere another Mama is going to be at home with her children, the house a mess from their play, her hair unruly from a day of mothering and her clothes dirty with spit up or peanut butter. She's going to be tired because she's spent her day cooking, caring, cleaning and playing with her children. She's going to look at that photo and she is going to compare herself to the perfect Mama at the pool. The Adversary is going to whisper into her ear "you aren't good enough... You don't look like that Mama at the pool... You don't have money to buy expensive swimming suits like that and you don't have time to make memories like she is" and that young Mama is going to believe it. She's going to feel like a failure. She'll never know that how she spent her time that day was so much better in her children's eyes than that "perfect Mama" at the pool.

What we see on Social Media isn't always real. Sometimes and often it's a complete set-up. It's staged and filtered and it's counterfeit.

Sometimes we do see absolutely real photos of vacations and beautiful homes and freshly done hair but it's only ONE moment. It's the very best moment out of a whole day spent much like our own. Working, cleaning, and messes...

Mamas, don't compare yourself. You ARE enough! You are amazing and the very best part is that you are REAL! Your dirty shirt and your messy house and your happy children are real and they are proof that you are doing it right! ❤
 
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35/f/Windsor & about to be a single mum too if I mention too far away from Aaron 🤣
 
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It sickens me that she is using Oakley for money when she can’t even bring herself to give him the love and attention he deserves.

(40/f/midlands 🤣)
 
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I think that the way she sits on her stories and tells everyone what she’s done for Oakley today only tells us that she knows she should be doing more because she’s trying to justify herself to everyone. I think everyone would agree that if she can be there at the hospital, she should be. Not ‘I’ve been up there this morning and played with him for abit’ that’s just not good enough. He’s going to grow up with a better connection with the nurses and not really knowing talia. I bet they feel so sorry for him in there and the parents of other babies are probably wondering why Oakley has no visitors. It’s really sad 😞
 
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"all my kids have had colic"
"This is why my babies haven't really had the whole colic thing"
Which is it Talia. I've never heard her mention colic before and we know she like to mention EVERYTHING wrong and every little inconvenience to her!

Also, why's she filmed it on a potato?!
 
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I saw this that someone posted in another group I'm on and it made me think of Talia. As well as many others "influencers". I'm the one run ragged usually 🤣




A few days ago while at the pool I watched a young Mama and her little daughter enter the pool area dressed in very nice coordinating swimming suits. The mom, with her perfect loose curls tied up in a coordinating scarf, spent the first few minutes talking loudly on her phone to a friend while her daughter stood waiting to get into the pool. Mom ended the phone call and proceeded to spread out pool toys and sunscreen on a matching towel. Then after finding just the right angle and the right light, Mama pulled out her tripod and took a few selfies with her daughter. Little One asked to get in the pool. Mama said wait and then posed her daughter in front the pool, then going in to the pool and then coming back out of the pool. Little one smiled big and said "cheese" like she'd done it a million times. Then Mama told her she could play. Little One walked in and swam around for a couple of minutes. Mama called a friend on her phone and began another conversation while Little One politely and repeatedly asked "Mama, can you come in the water with me, please?" She was ignored. "Mama, come play with me?" she asked 4 more times. Mama glanced over at her but never got off the phone. After 10 minutes Mama ended her call, collected the sunscreen that was never applied, the water toys that never touched the water, and then her daughter and left the pool.

I sat there thinking about what I'd witnessed for awhile afterwards. I imagined the photos she took being perfectly edited and posted to social media with a caption like "Pool time with my girly! #Makingmemories".

Somewhere another Mama is going to be at home with her children, the house a mess from their play, her hair unruly from a day of mothering and her clothes dirty with spit up or peanut butter. She's going to be tired because she's spent her day cooking, caring, cleaning and playing with her children. She's going to look at that photo and she is going to compare herself to the perfect Mama at the pool. The Adversary is going to whisper into her ear "you aren't good enough... You don't look like that Mama at the pool... You don't have money to buy expensive swimming suits like that and you don't have time to make memories like she is" and that young Mama is going to believe it. She's going to feel like a failure. She'll never know that how she spent her time that day was so much better in her children's eyes than that "perfect Mama" at the pool.

What we see on Social Media isn't always real. Sometimes and often it's a complete set-up. It's staged and filtered and it's counterfeit.

Sometimes we do see absolutely real photos of vacations and beautiful homes and freshly done hair but it's only ONE moment. It's the very best moment out of a whole day spent much like our own. Working, cleaning, and messes...

Mamas, don't compare yourself. You ARE enough! You are amazing and the very best part is that you are REAL! Your dirty shirt and your messy house and your happy children are real and they are proof that you are doing it right! ❤
Love this ❤
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She is so bleeping smug! You be lucky if she spends an hour a day with that poor baby!
What’s she smug about tho 🤷‍♀️I don’t get it ….. not like she’s winning at life . I wouldn’t want her life put it that way
 
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I think that the way she sits on her stories and tells everyone what she’s done for Oakley today only tells us that she knows she should be doing more because she’s trying to justify herself to everyone. I think everyone would agree that if she can be there at the hospital, she should be. Not ‘I’ve been up there this morning and played with him for abit’ that’s just not good enough. He’s going to grow up with a better connection with the nurses and not really knowing talia. I bet they feel so sorry for him in there and the parents of other babies are probably wondering why Oakley has no visitors. It’s really sad 😞
100% true. When she does come on saying how she's been up there its like she's gone to visit a distant family member. Literally sounds like me telling my dad that's I've been up to see my gran whos in hospital at the moment an said the couple of things I've done while up there so they know she's been bathed. It's not normal in the slightest. Spends an hour with him an now he's back to sitting in door frames alone bless his heart while she plays on a pogo stick with her 'mates'
She's an actual ' C U next Tuesday' nothing more nothing less.
 
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"all my kids have had colic"
"This is why my babies haven't really had the whole colic thing"
Which is it Talia. I've never heard her mention colic before and we know she like to mention EVERYTHING wrong and every little inconvenience to her!

Also, why's she filmed it on a potato?!
How the duck can companies watch that tit show and then pay her!
 
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What’s she smug about tho 🤷‍♀️I don’t get it ….. not like she’s winning at life . I wouldn’t want her life put it that way
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She thinks she has won where Aaron is concerned, new followers, back to much more interaction on her posts, new ads to make money from, Oakley now in hospital so she’s free to do what she likes. These are the things that matter to her.

Me? I would absolutely hate a life like that! I don’t know how she isn’t tripping over herself with guilt every day for how she has treated Oakley and used him - but she doesn’t have a conscience so she’s loving life!
 
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