Talia Oatway & Aaron Chalmers #18 shes with buspass Ben in the sheets, here comes Aaron with receipts

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Leaving her baby in hospital after not even a few hours so she can go home and shower. She is absolutely insufferable, you could go a day or 2 without a shower at home, but in hospital with your sick baby? You could go a week and nobody would bat an eyelid. She is absolutely bleeping crazy I think I’ve finally reached my block talia point now. THE SAME DAY HE GOT ADMITTED SHE LEFT FOR A SHOWER SHE IS A LUNATIC 🥲
 
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And everytime we think she can get any worse … she gets worse!

Wow Talia! Wow.

A GP ! You do realise what a GP is?? They are a “General Practitioner” a GP. They have a general knowledge, so broad, loose idea on all medical conditions. They are the opposite to a specialist who “specialises” in one medical area.

You will have a specialist contact number for the ward. A specialist nurse at the very least. They should be your first point of contact but you know this and know they would tell you to go in! You tried to bypass this by hoping the GP would sort him.

Lazy. Selfish. Narc.
 
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When I worked on a children’s ward a lot of the medically complex children had “open access” so if they were unwell the parents could ring for advice or could be admitted directly to the ward rather than having to see the GP or wait in A&E for hours. I’m sure that must still be the case, I wonder why she doesn’t do that? Or do you think she just ignores it because she doesn’t want to have to take him in?
 
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When I worked on a children’s ward a lot of the medically complex children had “open access” so if they were unwell the parents could ring for advice or could be admitted directly to the ward rather than having to see the GP or wait in A&E for hours. I’m sure that must still be the case, I wonder why she doesn’t do that? Or do you think she just ignores it because she doesn’t want to have to take him in?
She was probably hoping the GP didn’t know enough about his history and just sent them home, so she could say “oh well I took him to the GP and they said he was fine” and it makes her look like she cares (when she so clearly doesn’t)
 
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When I worked on a children’s ward a lot of the medically complex children had “open access” so if they were unwell the parents could ring for advice or could be admitted directly to the ward rather than having to see the GP or wait in A&E for hours. I’m sure that must still be the case, I wonder why she doesn’t do that? Or do you think she just ignores it because she doesn’t want to have to take him in?
my son has open access to the RVI so i don’t see why she wont but it looks like she often goes to a&e so he mustn’t
 
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She’ll of took him to drs coz she’d know hospital would wana keep him in , Drs visit she’s probably hoping for antibiotics !
 
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I honestly believe she would not care if that poor baby passed away. She would make a big deal about it, take in all the attention but I really think she would be relieved to no longer have the burden of a sick child.
Even now at my big age, if I tell any of my parents/step parents that one of my health conditions needs medical attention, at least one of them is right there with me for support, before I even get to the hospital. There’s no rolling of the eyes or announcing they ‘cba’. They don’t ask me to wait before going to see if things change on their own.
she’s a bleep of a woman and all 4 kids deserve so much better.
 
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I honestly believe she would not care if that poor baby passed away. She would make a big deal about it, take in all the attention but I really think she would be relieved to no longer have the burden of a sick child.
Even now at my big age, if I tell any of my parents/step parents that one of my health conditions needs medical attention, at least one of them is right there with me for support, before I even get to the hospital. There’s no rolling of the eyes or announcing they ‘cba’. They don’t ask me to wait before going to see if things change on their own.
she’s a bleep of a woman and all 4 kids deserve so much better.
I’ve always thought that I just didn’t know to word it tbh but your right she’d be relieved that she could get back to her “normal” life not having to take him to a hospital etc. he’s the bain of her life along with Maddox. She could scream having to take Oakley to mandatory hospital apps but is more than happy to willingly go to hospital for herself to get a boob she’s evil sick and the worst mum I’ve ever came across. she doesn’t even hold him while he’s in there never hear her singing or playing to even speaking to him she hangs over the side of the cot taking selfies. I think Oakley will life a long life if he has aperts I looked up on it last night and it seems like have a normal life expectancy which is amazing
 
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I think she took Oakley home with her to shower and get the clothes so that's even worse🙈 you could hear him in the video where she said he was being admitted and it looked like home not hospital
 
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I spend a lot of time in the RVI as most of you know because I’ve commented when I’ve seen Talia in too.

The showers are great and most rooms are en-suite with a shower and a bath. Extremely clean because the GNCH (great north children’s hospital) is relatively new and on the side of the RVI. The showers are lovely and hot / powerful. If you need towels they give you them, they even supply shampoo, toothbrushes etc anything you need they go above and beyond. If you don’t want to ask the. The shop downstairs sells everything! Hair brushes, nail files, bits of makeup, deodorants, different toothpastes, toothbrushes everything is in that shop it’s great!! Many time when it was covid and my other half wasn’t allowed in I survived in that shop lol

I was once in for 2.5 months (10 weeks) with my little on and I did not have a second out of the hospital.

You can also get Uber to deliver anything to your ward door or main reception. Food or items from Asda etc because it’s right in the middle of the city centre everything is available.

What I’m trying to say is there is no excuse.
 
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I spend a lot of time in the RVI as most of you know because I’ve commented when I’ve seen Talia in too.

The showers are great and most rooms are en-suite with a shower and a bath. Extremely clean because the GNCH (great north children’s hospital) is relatively new and on the side of the RVI. The showers are lovely and hot / powerful. If you need towels they give you them, they even supply shampoo, toothbrushes etc anything you need they go above and beyond. If you don’t want to ask the. The shop downstairs sells everything! Hair brushes, nail files, bits of makeup, deodorants, different toothpastes, toothbrushes everything is in that shop it’s great!! Many time when it was covid and my other half wasn’t allowed in I survived in that shop lol

I was once in for 2.5 months (10 weeks) with my little on and I did not have a second out of the hospital.

You can also get Uber to deliver anything to your ward door or main reception. Food or items from Asda etc because it’s right in the middle of the city centre everything is available.

What I’m trying to say is there is no excuse.
Another regular RVI stayer 👋🏼 you’re absolutely right. We have always experienced them go above and beyond for us. My husband often says he misses the showers at the RVI🤣🤣. I love that little shop it sells crocs now🤣
 
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Bless Oakley struggling because of his idiotic selfish mother. As if she’s getting a boob job at this moment in time, anyone can see Oakley is very up and down daily not just with the surgeries. She’s acting like a boob job is like getting a hair cut 😂 there are risks, complications things can go wrong, the recovery ! Her kids won’t be looked after properly she won’t be able to and what if there’s an emergency with Oakley ?? If that isn’t a wake up call to her followers that she doesn’t give a tit about her kids I don’t know what will
 
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When I worked on a children’s ward a lot of the medically complex children had “open access” so if they were unwell the parents could ring for advice or could be admitted directly to the ward rather than having to see the GP or wait in A&E for hours. I’m sure that must still be the case, I wonder why she doesn’t do that? Or do you think she just ignores it because she doesn’t want to have to take him in?
Your absolutely correct actually. When I left with my baby who was only 3 months old the week before Xmas after nearly 2 weeks fighting bronchiolitis he was given open access for 2 weeks. Oakley will have 24/7 access indefinitely as he is obviously a poorly wee soul, who also requires constant oxygen so she will be able to just go in. The GP can't do anything except from tell you what you should already know... To get the baby straight to the local children's hospital. Blows my mind, honestly! I wouldn't be able to sleep for worrying and constantly checking him. I know it will become the norm for them but when he's dropping into the low 80s that a serious cause for concern. Feel so sorry for him, what a hard life he's going to have with non stop hospital visits, surgeries, developmental delays and other issues along the way 😢 I suppose he knows no different but it's just so sad he's going to struggle all his life!
 
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Is it a normal thing to a community nurse to come and look after your child so you get a break?
I've never heard of that before and I know families with really sick kids. One family had triplets and all 3 had really complex needs and the family didn't get any help or breaks.
 
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Talia doesn’t deserve Oakley, that precious wee boy deserves so much more than that tit stain of a mother. She honestly is one of the most self centred cows to grace instagram and that’s saying something! I hope her bleeping tits end up botched like her face and they sterilise her whilst she’s under anaesthetic horrible witch!
 
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Is it a normal thing to a community nurse to come and look after your child so you get a break?
I've never heard of that before and I know families with really sick kids. One family had triplets and all 3 had really complex needs and the family didn't get any help or breaks.
Not where I’m from either, I know a parent who had a 3 year old with CP and newborn premature twins on home oxygen and nope she never got an ounce of help
 
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Is it a normal thing to a community nurse to come and look after your child so you get a break?
I've never heard of that before and I know families with really sick kids. One family had triplets and all 3 had really complex needs and the family didn't get any help or breaks.
This is what I want to know too. I never knew the NHS provided free baby sitting services. If that's the case then I feel robbed 🤣
 
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Is it a normal thing to a community nurse to come and look after your child so you get a break?
I've never heard of that before and I know families with really sick kids. One family had triplets and all 3 had really complex needs and the family didn't get any help or breaks.
I've never heard of it being a thing where I live. I've heard of respite care but never for a child that young.
 
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Is it a normal thing to a community nurse to come and look after your child so you get a break?
I've never heard of that before and I know families with really sick kids. One family had triplets and all 3 had really complex needs and the family didn't get any help or breaks.
this is what I wonder!! I’ve only ever known them to come out if there’s anything they need to do or change weekly etc. I wonder if she pays for a private one 🤷🏻‍♀️ or she’s been flagged up as needing help
 
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