I mean we saw on camera for years the way Syd treated Ell badly, the bitchy comments she would make, the way she’d ignore what Ell was saying, when the hamster was around it was often like Ell didn’t matter to her. I don’t doubt that in their falling out they both did things wrong but Syd obviously thinks they’ve fallen out over one particular thing whereas to everyone else it’s pretty obvious this was a long time coming. Before they even fell out we would talk on this thread about how crappy Syd was to Ell, maybe it took Ell having a bf to point out the way Syd was behaving to make Ell realise? I imagine Ell’s family wore rose tinted glasses where Syd was concerned and just saw her as more of an extrovert than Ell considering they’d known each other for so long whereas he had a new perspective on the situation. We know the falling out was something to do with him because Syd told everyone that and there’s not much that he could’ve done because if anything was THAT bad there’s no way she’d keep her mouth shut about what it was! I think Ell is just over it, she’s put up with years of Syd’s drama and is now free from it whereas Syd keeps bringing it up so she’s obviously not over it at all