@daffodilgirl Hello
Saw your message on the Hinch Forum X
If it just presents from your daughter you’re worried about then I wouldn’t bother. As you say she barely knows the woman. The woman is probably feeling guilty, maybe she will want to get know your daughter better?
It’s hard to know…… sorry I’m not much help.
Saw your message on the Hinch Forum X
I’m having a bit of a guilt trip to do with my EX MIL.
Bit of a back story, me and my ex split when my LG was 3 she’s now 11, since then he’s had no contact, his choice not mine he stopped sending presents and cards when she was 7 years old and she noticed he didn’t send presents or cards.
Anyway me and his mum got on fine she distanced herself from my child too, she barely sees her even though she is down my street pretty often sometimes twice a week seeing one of my neighbours ( they’re friends) but only calls at my house maybe once every few months or to bring down Xmas & birthday cards / presents.
My daughter doesn’t really know her as she doesn’t see them, again their choice not mine.
the Thing is I haven’t bought her a card or present from my daughter since me and her dad split as he was the one who always got them for His mum.
Today she has called down and like every year has bought cards for my daughter and for me too but she added money into mine, now I’m feeling guilty that I don’t buy her anything or give her a card.
do I start giving her cards and presents.
If it just presents from your daughter you’re worried about then I wouldn’t bother. As you say she barely knows the woman. The woman is probably feeling guilty, maybe she will want to get know your daughter better?
It’s hard to know…… sorry I’m not much help.
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