Youve every right to be upset! I’d be selling the tickets on and the hotel rooms, then take your dad out for a lovely meal or something as he isn’t being a pain in the ass!Hey guys…
I have a quick dilemma and there wasn’t quite the right thread for it, so I hope it’s ok if I ask for advice here.
My parents turn 60 this year, and I got them Hamilton tickets and a hotel stay in London. (I was also joining them). I wanted to get really good seats and a nice hotel so the tickets alone were almost £500 for the three of us and with the two rooms in a hotel it was almost a grand total.
When I told my mum, she was moaning about how it’s not fair I didn’t invite my older sister, and how she would be upset to hear we all went without her. Like I said this was my birthday gift to them. Over the weeks my mum kept saying how she’s nervous to tell my sister because it’s not nice we’re all going without her?!
Suddenly tonight my mum sent me a text saying she gave her ticket away to my sister with some bullshit excuse about how she’s thinking of starting a new job soon and won’t be free (wtf).
For context, my sister is her favourite child (yes she’s admitted this) and is put on a pedestal and is treated differently from everyone else as a result. I also have a younger sister who of course isn’t invited either but my mum claims it’s not fair on my older sister as she lives round the corner from them and it’s not like my younger sister will travel across the country just to see Hamilton with us. (This is what my mum says when trying to explain she thinks it’s unfair…I’m aware this may not make a whole lot of sense…)
Anyway. Am I right to be upset? I planned this trip to spend time with my parents and celebrate their birthday with them and my mum has effectively ruined the trip with her annoying bias for my sister when it’s nothing to do with her?
I love my sister obviously but I don’t fancy spending hundreds on her for no reason. Am I a witch for being annoyed that now she’s coming instead of my mum when she wasn’t invited? I really don’t feel like it was my mums place to do that.
Honestly, nothing quite like family to piss on your chips!