Support for anyone that needs to vent #3

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People are still commenting on it . .
Its got 48 pages.
Im able to comment/like on others, just not that particular 1?
Weird.
 
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Is it?
I was able to comment on it with my old name?
Thanks for your reply. .
Will I eventually be able to comment?
Yeah just post on other threads until it says member not new member and it might work then. Your old account must have had more posts on it.
 
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I really don't know if I keep this post up.

But I had a very bad experience a few days ago

I was told something and me been the caring person I mentioned it to another person to protect them.

This ended badly as the parent of child was mentioned had something yelled at me across the road infront of whole street. (Instead of just coming up to ask)
Of course this sets my pass life anger out (I was badly bullied so my adult self of instinct is to defend myself as I didn't say rumour) well let's say when my anger is bad (only happens once in blue moon I come to blow) He (inbeen told a lot of people dont like him) was having a right go at me that I went towards him he looked scared and moved I let rip into him (badly), cause upsetting his kid (who I sad sorry to if miss understood) I wasn't gonna say sorry to the dad cause he had no right to have a right go at me infront of everyone. Apparently he likes to do it in public to make a fool of you and never expects someone aka a women to fight her ground.

Now people on street know not to piss me off.
I haven't being out since properly when I came back some people turned and went bk in house, I made myself sick over it. Had panic attacks and all.
This is the second time someone had ago at me infront of everyone (again its like high school bullying) I let rip then.
I am one of the kindest, caring, thoughtful person you will ever meet, I help out people even though no one will help me out.
I look after the kids on the street when out.

I'm just hurt that said person didn't say their said it and I was just warning other kid.

I lost some weight, not eating, having nightmares, so not sleeping well.

I know I shouldn't of done it and all, I don't have anger problems, I been treated for this, the Dr said it's a outburst of anger cause the person is like "bullying me again" I tried counting in the past but I come to blow. Again only once in a blue moon. Other times if mad It's controlled as I can count ( I get mad at news on TV, or if something not working when it should)

I have a health condition that your mood can be effected physically, mentally and emotionally it comes for a few mins to hour then goes. Unless the problem like mine can last for days on end.

I have zero friend, like none, only onlone ones but their dont really know me. So i havent got anyone to turn too but family.

I just want to cry and hide.
 
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I just wanna moan about my friend really. As she always cries on my shoulder about her fella who treats her like crap. For example he called her a bleep when they were out shopping last night 🙄. She never takes my advice on board so I don’t even know why she bothers telling me ? I wanna be supportive but I’m sick of wasting my words now as whenever she says something about him , I’ll reply and she will change the subject.
She said last she was really upset after they got back and I told her he doesn’t deserve her and she didn’t reply and we haven’t spoke all day usually we speak all day everyday 😂. But I just don’t feel like reaching out for a few days cos I feel it’s pointless
 
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Urgh. I know there's no time frame on "getting over" the death of someone. Someone please tell me it gets easier?
 
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Urgh. I know there's no time frame on "getting over" the death of someone. Someone please tell me it gets easier?
I promise you - it does get easier. Grief comes and goes in waves, in the early days those waves feel intense and overbearing, but overtime they'll become easier to deal with and feel less strong. Sending love, I hope you're ok xx
 
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So had some bad news today. I’m only just 38 and they found scarring on my heart after an MRI. I’ve been having palpitations and feeling crap all of a sudden since March. They’re not sure if it’s the scarring causing the palpitations or hormones but I’ve got to speak to an electrophysiologist now to talk about getting an ablation (where they zap the heart with a wire to kill off the spasm). I’m gutted!!!

I have zero other health issues and have never had any heart issues until March this year. It’s bizarre. I’m not overweight, I don’t smoke or drink alcohol or caffeine to excess. No drugs ever. No excessive exercise. No serious illnesses. Nothing. No reaction to covid jabs either and only just caught covid in June and it was really mild. I just don’t get it.

Personally I think I’m perimenopausal (I have lots of other symptoms related to that and my palpitations get worse with my cycle- I’m speaking to a specialist on Friday) and I think it’s making me feel worse and the scarring is perhaps just a red herring or irritated by hormones. It didn’t show up on my ct scans or anything and there’s nothing in my history that could have caused it to my knowledge. My cardiologist isn’t too worried as it’s much scarring, but I am! I feel tit, all the time, and now they’re telling me my hearts scarred! Wtaf! The only person I know with heart issues is my FIL who’s in his late 70s! I just… needed to vent.
 
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Just made a mistake in work - nothing major and it was easily fixed. I work hard and take pride in my work and I like my job. My boss looked disappointed in me.

I burst into tears in front of the office.

I am mortified and feel pathetic.
 
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I am tired of people who have zero empathy until something similar happens to them and then they act as though their problem trumps everyone else's. Strange because when I had a similar problem, I was told by this same person "we all have problems".
 
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Urgh. I know there's no time frame on "getting over" the death of someone. Someone please tell me it gets easier?
It does and it doesn't.

You go through various stages of grief with no real sequence. It is a lot of ups and downs. You could feel "normal" for a few days, then something reminds you of them / their absence and it brings you right back. Sometimes you just feel their absence to the core because it hits you again that they're "gone". Some days will be easier than others, but grief is not a straight road. You don't spend 3 months crying every day and suddenly you're all fine. However, with time, you learn to live with the absence and the realization that they are gone. With grief, you just have to accept your emotions as they come without repressing them.
 
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