Really interesting discussion. The thing about Jess in particular though, is that her money, privilege, and endless days of doing nothing largely don't come from working as an influencer; it all comes from her family's wealth. She doesn't need PR freebies and hardly does any sponsorships these days. Being able to afford a house and to travel around the world (pre-Covid), etc., are all because of her family. She's not selling us an 'influencer's lifestyle' since she didn't attain her lifestyle through being an influencer, and it's impossible to 'sell' family wealth; either you have it or you don't. She's just showing us how the upper-middle/upper class lives. There's nothing that suggests she would be doing anything much differently with her life if she weren't on Youtube, which is why she's a bit separate from many other influencers. It's also what drew me into her uni vlogs, because her Youtube was only a part of her student life that she would be living regardless of documenting it or not.
I used to follow other fashion/lifestyle youtubers as a high school/undergrad student so I could live vicariously through them and imagine what kinds of nice things I could buy when I make my own income. But coming out of undergrad and now in my graduate studies, except for Jess, I've unfollowed all of the fashion influencers I used to watch because their values and consumerist lifestyles just don't align with my values anymore. Because there's nothing there to aspire to or look up to, I don't find any entertainment in it either. I also have a good enough idea of my own fashion tastes/styles that I don't feel the need to constantly look for daily/weekly 'inspiration' via influencers. Plus most of them honestly have sub-par tastes at best. I can be envious for their material wealth, but a lot of them seem to live fairly empty, superficial lives. Other than financial stability, there's not much else to be jealous of or interested in -- and that's very much how I feel towards Jess. I only follow her out of morbid curiosity of when she's going to put her life together or do anything with that MA of hers. If it weren't for keeping up with these threads that are more entertaining than her actual videos, I might have already unsubscribed by now.