Me too, I actually used to love seeing the real training videos when people *shock* argued and got annoyed at eachother. Totally fed up of the toxic positivity BFF crap they churn out.Shirley just seems publicity hungry, I think some are in the case of keeping their enemies closer with Dan Wootton but I do think he & Shirley are genuine.
Danny JJ might be a bit difficult (though it takes two to tango in any pairing) but I do kinda like that he's burst the "happy family, we're all BFFs" bubble.