It’s atrocious how she has played all this out is projecting big time for some follows and collabs. She seen a few things written here threw her toys out the pram and thought how can I make this work for me.
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It’s working too as she is gaining thousands of followers.
I wonder how much she will use this for content?
All she’s doing is pushing people to these threads who are figuring out she’s class at telling fibs and they’re following ready for the tit show. No one can go against the word of a girl who has cancer in public so… 
This seems really aggressive and the way she keeps calling her troll. This White House woman really doesn’t seem nice at all. I read this whole thread and there were not hateful comments. Seems she’s attention seekingI’ve just read the most horrendous post on the account @inside_the_white_house_. I not familiar with this Instagram account, I believe looking at post that the woman on it has been treated for Cancer this year??
Anyway the post is about a member from here that was clearly affected last week and is evidently a vulnerable person at the moment. She decided to apologise for her comments. I am absolutely speechless. Not only did @inside_the_white_house obviously scare this girl to death, she also called the girls Sister and her Family, got them involved and proceeded to write it all up for a post on her page, that her followers could comment on to further stick the boot in. Plus, she’s managed, according to herself, to get this girl to DELETE all her Social Media, her account on here and basically diagnosed her as a having mental health issues that she couldn’t possibly do over a 30 minute phone call, with absolutely no experience or knowledge of this girls history.
This kind of behaviour over a few comments on a forum (and it was only a few, never enough to warrant 7 hours a day on here. duck me, I’ve made nearly 4000 comments and I think admin could confirm I’m logged in here for about 35 mins a day altogether, just 5-10 mins here and there over 24 hours. Blows my bleeping mind that these ego maniacs think it’s all we do,) can cause so many problems for the person at the end of the user name on here. These people put themselves and their lives on show for the world to see and think they can dive into everyone’s head and write their own narrative. Forums exist, football, politics, TV, health, parenting, music, gossip, gaming, I’ll bet even Josh reads a bleeping birding forum because they are everywhere for everything.
Yet this one, because it offends the precious headspace of the women that can’t abide being told the truth about who they are, has those same women belittling, bullying and making CONTENT from anyone who criticises them. I really hope that no one on this thread here has been made to feel guilty about anything they’ve written. You can write what the hell you want as long as you don’t break Tattle rules. Don’t get gaslighted into making confessions to anyone, because the only thing you will become is another victim of an crappy industry that is dominated by woman, not supporting women, but exploitating them in the very worst way by using emotionally motivated manipulative abuse, mostly to make a profit. Sorry for the rant, but bleeping hell
Heres the post. Honestly we could do with a thread offering support to anyone that been through this nonsense and this White House woman needs to get a grip of herself. I’d have written this on her page, but honestly what’s the point? I don’t care about how she feels, I care that she’s used her profile to intimidate someone and make them a spectacle, when they were anonymous!
Used to think think this Steph girl was ok, followed her initially for home inspo but jeezo she's an absolute hole. Couldn't give a tit about her illness tbh, I hate the fetishisation of cancer that's taken over insta, kinda freaks me out a bit, but she just comes across as a manipulative self absorbed show off with absolutely no empathy. Her post about Sarah Harding was outrageous. Posing in a car??? Call the police on me hen for saying this, go on! Jesus Christ you're an idiot.
I can't believe I ever used to like her. She's exposed herself for being the massive witch she is.
I've got stage 3 cancer and after a year of treatment it's still ongoing. Some days I can't even put a jumper on. But it's not a free pass to make you untouchable while you go and abuse other people because you believe you're right so they must be wrong. There's nothing even that bad on this thread. I agree with the poster above about disliking the fetishisation of cancer. All for likes on an app. Dear get a grip..you're exposing your true self.
I've got stage 3 cancer and after a year of treatment it's still ongoing. Some days I can't even put a jumper on. But it's not a free pass to make you untouchable while you go and abuse other people because you believe you're right so they must be wrong. There's nothing even that bad on this thread. I agree with the poster above about disliking the fetishisation of cancer. All for likes on an app. Dear get a grip..you're exposing your true self.
I can’t believe how horrific someone can be. If it’s true what she has said then she is a vile bully. However, I doubt any of it is true and she is just using it as content. Put yourself on a public platform and people are going to have an opinion- FACT! She’s so unlikeable and her behaviour is wretched.
I have followed since the beginning of her cancer journey and really liked her. I still feel sorry for her with her diagnosis and having 2 young children too makes it even more heartbreaking……however……. I do think she has completely blown this out of proportion. She had 1 thread with 5 pages. People were expressing their opinion on her which as far as I’m aware is not illegal! She wasn’t being messaged directly. And yes I don’t suppose it’s nice reading negative things about yourself but she has exposed herself to people to have that opinion. No one would write a thread about me cos I’m not putting myself out there.
She has bullied this poor girl into apologising for having an opinion and dragged her family into it. So it’s ok for her to call a person a dick but if someone called her that on here it’s trolling?? This site isn’t trolling…..it’s a site where people can have an opinion on someone else. If she was being private messaged the fair enough but she wasn’t. It’s all for the engagement. She now needs another reason for people to follow her now her journey has come to an end
She has bullied this poor girl into apologising for having an opinion and dragged her family into it. So it’s ok for her to call a person a dick but if someone called her that on here it’s trolling?? This site isn’t trolling…..it’s a site where people can have an opinion on someone else. If she was being private messaged the fair enough but she wasn’t. It’s all for the engagement. She now needs another reason for people to follow her now her journey has come to an end
Unfortunately I feel this is a growing trend with influencers (encouraged by hinch) that if people are not blowing smoke up their arse and have an opinion that’s different to theirs - they are automatically a troll.
How entitled do you have to be to think everyone must like you?
Steph has and is continuing to lose a lot of local support for the way she has absolutely hounded this other girl into exposing herself…threatening to doxx someone is dangerous and can cause so much harm (not to mention actually illegal). I only hope hereforthedrama is ok, those messages of her begging and pleading made me feel sick to my stomach. Not to mention involving her family and essentially forcing what sounds like a vulnerable single mum to delete all social media and completely isolate herself. She has gaslighted this poor girl into thinking she has mental health problems because she likes a bit of a gossip, on top of her fear of exposure, she must be a wreck. Dangerous game Steph has played here and she seems to be enjoying it. I can’t help but feel if she wasn’t a huge bully herself, she’d have kept them private. Choosing to make a video with music and a topless pic of herself is really disturbing…
This has made me feel extremely uncomfortable. Here For The Banter didn't say anything even close to abusive, her main issue seems to have been undeclared ads and her Sarah Harding post which I also found distasteful.
But now Steffi seems to be dressing herself up as some sort of mental health warrior who has saved this person from her torment, and helping her come to terms with her problems. It's genuinely sickening.
If you don't want to be held to account, don't have a public social media platform. It's that easy.
But now Steffi seems to be dressing herself up as some sort of mental health warrior who has saved this person from her torment, and helping her come to terms with her problems. It's genuinely sickening.
If you don't want to be held to account, don't have a public social media platform. It's that easy.
Iv come on here, like many, to see what the posts were!
Steph has not portrayed this correctly at all! She has not done that girl any favours if she is feeling mentally unwell.
I wonder how she feels herself now reading these posts.
Everyone, like her, is entitled to an opinion. That’s life! Having an opinion is not trolling. Having an account on social media with a following you must ne aware people will have opinions and talk………
Steph has not portrayed this correctly at all! She has not done that girl any favours if she is feeling mentally unwell.
I wonder how she feels herself now reading these posts.
Everyone, like her, is entitled to an opinion. That’s life! Having an opinion is not trolling. Having an account on social media with a following you must ne aware people will have opinions and talk………
I don't really have much to add as it's all been said.
But it's the utter hypocrisy of these people. Always going on about being nice and protecting mental health. But it doesn't extend outside of themselves and are happy to distroy a private member of the public who dared have an opinion on a public figure.
They need a reality check. But it's a total circle jerk of influencers egging them on and sycophants. They really can't see they're so so much worse than the people they bemoan.
But it's the utter hypocrisy of these people. Always going on about being nice and protecting mental health. But it doesn't extend outside of themselves and are happy to distroy a private member of the public who dared have an opinion on a public figure.
They need a reality check. But it's a total circle jerk of influencers egging them on and sycophants. They really can't see they're so so much worse than the people they bemoan.
Okies I will admit I didn’t watch her reel because I didn’t want to add to her engagement. I wish I stuck to that mantra.
Fancy being that self involved you screenshot the private messages and use that for content?
Your hypocritical behaviour knows no bounds.
Steff - you’re a bully! A massive hypocritical bully.
To portray that we all must be sad lonely individuals hooked on gossip is a dangerous narrative to push.
I hope you don’t have any gossip magazines in your salons? I hope you don’t pick the phone up to your friend and discuss what xyz is doing? Or the neighbour who has had an affair?
The home community really is the most self indulgent narcissistic vapid community ever.
I actually feel sick.
what a bleep!!!
Fancy being that self involved you screenshot the private messages and use that for content?
Your hypocritical behaviour knows no bounds.
Steff - you’re a bully! A massive hypocritical bully.
To portray that we all must be sad lonely individuals hooked on gossip is a dangerous narrative to push.
I hope you don’t have any gossip magazines in your salons? I hope you don’t pick the phone up to your friend and discuss what xyz is doing? Or the neighbour who has had an affair?
The home community really is the most self indulgent narcissistic vapid community ever.
I actually feel sick.
what a bleep!!!
I hate the situation that keeps popping up on my feed ref trolls -I.e
Airing your opinion on social media's influencers. I have to add it was her home account I follow I know nothing about this lady generally but her health journey is out there,but she has a mass
Of huns blowing smoke up her, and her patronising words for her troll,is a bit too much to read,the use of threats ,ending messages with tick tock tick tock. This goading,is what,going to revive a movement of people retracting their opinions,because they are threatened by
A controlling influencer,which isn't that interesting after seeing her before and afters over and over. I didn't even think she had a thread , what was there to say,but now,now there's allot to say. I wouldn't comment of her health etc,I admire her strength,I don't admire her actions just now,I don't feel I want to delete my account,or retract my opinions,I hope all involved are ok.
Airing your opinion on social media's influencers. I have to add it was her home account I follow I know nothing about this lady generally but her health journey is out there,but she has a mass
Of huns blowing smoke up her, and her patronising words for her troll,is a bit too much to read,the use of threats ,ending messages with tick tock tick tock. This goading,is what,going to revive a movement of people retracting their opinions,because they are threatened by
A controlling influencer,which isn't that interesting after seeing her before and afters over and over. I didn't even think she had a thread , what was there to say,but now,now there's allot to say. I wouldn't comment of her health etc,I admire her strength,I don't admire her actions just now,I don't feel I want to delete my account,or retract my opinions,I hope all involved are ok.
Accepting a free sofa and taking a few pics isn't "work".
I dunno it can take ages to style oneAccepting a free sofa and taking a few pics isn't "work".
The more I think about the way this Stef has dealt with this the more disgusted I am. What a hideous bully. Stef dear, other people's opinions on you are none of your business 
Shame on you for trying to frighten this woman, shame her to her family and hound her off the internet for a bit of idle gossiping. What a nasty, cruel woman you are. I hope it was worth it all for the engagement. The threatening 'tick tock' chat is really horrible. You've not made yourself look good at all.
Shame on you for trying to frighten this woman, shame her to her family and hound her off the internet for a bit of idle gossiping. What a nasty, cruel woman you are. I hope it was worth it all for the engagement. The threatening 'tick tock' chat is really horrible. You've not made yourself look good at all.The tick tock part was pure nastiness I unseen anything nice about Steph. She looked spiteful she is spiteful I mean how dare anyone say anything about her or have an opinion on her. It’s struck a nerve what was said and a dignified silence would have been better instead of making herself look worse than the girl on here.
Saw her post and thought I’d come and have a nose, tbh didn’t even realise she had a thread, just thought her and her husband were plastic snobs.
I actually can’t believe the audacity of her. The way she has posted about that woman was totally unnecessary and nothing more than bullying. So please correct me if I’m wrong, but she promised not to out her and went ahead and done precisely that, the woman begged that her mum didn’t get told and ole Steph invited her & her sister around for T and a chat. Seriously she’s f’kin lucky that weren’t my sister!!!
She’s a nasty vile troll.
What she has done to that poor woman is not acceptable and she should be ashamed of herself.
F’kin tick tock Steph’s a cock!
I actually can’t believe the audacity of her. The way she has posted about that woman was totally unnecessary and nothing more than bullying. So please correct me if I’m wrong, but she promised not to out her and went ahead and done precisely that, the woman begged that her mum didn’t get told and ole Steph invited her & her sister around for T and a chat. Seriously she’s f’kin lucky that weren’t my sister!!!
She’s a nasty vile troll. What she has done to that poor woman is not acceptable and she should be ashamed of herself.
F’kin tick tock Steph’s a cock!