Oh I know that, I just meant by the time himself & Stacey had Rex she had already trusted him enough to bring him into her sons lives as well as see him grow up & fight to be part of Harry’s life so it’s odd that she pushed him away when Rex was small. I’d say he’s walking on eggshells now & having so many people around at what should be a private time for them as parents must be awful for him.I’m sure he has said previously that he dropped the ball with his eldest son and wasn’t ready to be a dad and basically wasn’t present. I dont think he was fighting to see him the whole time?
I just want her to get on and name the kid so we can stop with the pickle lily joke that has been posted here like it’s a new joke every few pages for the last 3 months
I agree, I had a 39 hour labour which ended in emergency c section at 5:20pm, the next morning at 8:30 the midwife had me up and walking aboutChrist, I had the birth from hell, my son was dragged out of me at 1:00am they didn’t even bring me round until 5:00am as they were saving my life. I was up and showered by 10:00 am and showered and fresh pjs on every day after. 3 days later I walked to the canteen for coffees and to register the baby at the end of the ward (the baby was with my Mam) 4 days after I was begging to go home to start real life and have some time just us. There’s a reason they want you up and about it’s not healthy to be slothing about in bed dirty all day.
Same her mine was about 2pm then 7am the next morning a heath care assistant came in catharter out and she had me in the shower and got all my clean stuff ready for me washed me (not sure why I couldn't wash myslef like but I didn't want to argueI agree, I had a 39 hour labour which ended in emergency c section at 5:20pm, the next morning at 8:30 the midwife had me up and walking about
Oh thanks I don’t have kids so I didn’t know that.Your milk doesn’t come until a few days after birth. Before the you still breastfeed - the baby is getting colostrum instead
Do you think? I always thought it was the other way round. He seems irritated by her most of the timeOh I know that, I just meant by the time himself & Stacey had Rex she had already trusted him enough to bring him into her sons lives as well as see him grow up & fight to be part of Harry’s life so it’s odd that she pushed him away when Rex was small. I’d say he’s walking on eggshells now & having so many people around at what should be a private time for them as parents must be awful for him.
I get strange vibes off them as a couple, I don’t think she’s as in to him as he is to her.
I was thinking this.I think they’ll call the baby a really old lady name like Ethel or Doris. Lots of ‘celebs’ seem to do this.
At my son's school gate on Monday was a mum with a baby that was born on Saturday afternoon! Lucky Stacey having the luxury of lying in bed for a week!!She got changed after the birth nightie into them after, I assume she had a shower I mean in the hospitals the midwives make you  she should be getting out of bed now I'm sorry she has other children even after my first I had an emergency c section I didn't spend that much time in bed!! Just think us normal mums would have been out taking the kids to school
I’m not saying a shower fixes PND, obviously, I just think she could take small steps to look after herself correctly in the hopes that it helps.To be fair, if I had their lifestyle I would probably have stayed in bed, tit out, to try and establish feeding, especially as she struggled with Rex, so I don’t begrudge her that.
I will say though - and before anyone shoots me down, I know PND is complex, and it’s not a one size fits all situation, if she is still pulling this lying around in bed shit in a few weeks, she’ll need to give her head a wobble.
Sometimes, it is possible to help yourself. Some fresh air, a shower, a change of scenery and clean clothes can really make the world of difference at times.
It would be easier for her seeing as Joe is home more than most partners too.
I made myself get up at 6 am (regardless of lack of sleep) and have a shower before my partner left for work at 6:30.
even if nothing else got done that day, knowing I was clean and presentable(ish) really can help the mind.
I said the same thing weeks ago. I definitely heard Rex say Ruby whilst rubbing Staceys tummy. I did post at the time and several of you agreed you’d heard it tooI think the baby will be called Ruby... Sure we heard rex saying that on one of her stories a while ago. I mentioned Autumn a few months ago but I don't think she will now.
Jesus your in and out quick now arent you? When I had my first 34 yrs ago I was in for 5 days and I thought that wasn't long enough! I'd still be in now if I'd had my way!At my son's school gate on Monday was a mum with a baby that was born on Saturday afternoon! Lucky Stacey having the luxury of lying in bed for a week!!
Post-birth hormones make you sweat so much I was getting changed at least twice a day! Also, she’s wearing cream pyjamas! Who the fuck wears cream when they’ve just given birth?! Madness!
My mum was in 10 days in the 70s! And wasn't a risky birth, that was the norm. I couldn't wait to get home though after mine, it was boiling and noisy at hospital. I came home, had another shower and hairwash....and painted my nails to feel like myself again!!Jesus your in and out quick now arent you? When I had my first 34 yrs ago I was in for 5 days and I thought that wasn't long enough! I'd still be in now if I'd had my way!
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