Agreed. I can’t see how she actively goes out of her way to provide her kids with a sloppy fruit pancake in place of a regular birthday cake and then claims that you should be relaxed and not restrict treats on special occasions! So if your kids is literally scoffing their entire Halloween stash in one sitting is she saying that we shouldn’t intervene at all?!!! Cos that’s what my kid would do...I take her posts around sugary foods with a massive pinch of salt. The whole things about being relaxed around chocolate/sweets etc and not restricting access to them just doesn’t ring true with the controlling way she behaves around food the rest of the time.