Oh, she did it againShe’s setting them up to be the children I see in my class who when we have a buffet or party food try and shove as much as they can on their plate and be super greedy because they’ve never been around normal food. It’s poor parenting in my opinion. I’m sure I remember raffy had a fruit birthday cake me year that was just loads of fruit stacked up with a candle in
My cousins were never allowed sweets etc when we were kids so as a result at every party they were literally hoovering up everything like they’d never been fed, running around screaming, high on sugar and then inevitably always threw up everywhere when they got homeShe’s setting them up to be the children I see in my class who when we have a buffet or party food try and shove as much as they can on their plate and be super greedy because they’ve never been around normal food. It’s poor parenting in my opinion. I’m sure I remember raffy had a fruit birthday cake me year that was just loads of fruit stacked up with a candle in
Oh, she did it againSuch disordered eating. It’s a party!! Chuck out some proper party food!
I’m not surprisedMy cousins were never allowed sweets etc when we were kids so as a result at every party they were literally hoovering up everything like they’d never been fed, running around screaming, high on sugar and then inevitably always threw up everywhere when they got home
Exactly. What’s wrong with letting them have a bit of regular cake but not making a big deal out of it? Poor kid. Have you noticed how Ada is constantly labelled as the “difficult one” and Raffy is the golden child by comparison. If Raffy goes through a fussy stage, it’s “oh this is normal, he was probably going through a lot bless him”, if Ada starts throwing food or refusing things, it’s “well obviously I find it incredibly frustrating, she’s not like her brother at all”. Poor Ada is going to see the harsh labelling on social media in years to come and realise just how much she lives in the shadow of her brother!I’m sorry but her daughter’s ‘pancake sheet cake’ or whatever she called it, is the saddest excuse for a birthday cake ive ever seen. Is there really anything wrong with allowing them a proper cake on their birthday?! Let’s face it they’re only going to actually ingest a minimal amount at 1. Do these controlling, obsessive types not realise that their kids are going to go absolutely fucking mental once they start having free access to sugar etc in life…like on play dates or whatever. Isn’t it better to teach them to enjoy all foods in moderation?! Raffy & Ada have got “gone off the rails” written all over them in later life.
I thought this would have stopped by now, but her recent posts have made it so obvious again! Ada sounds like a normal child with character. She must just be pissed off that perfect Waffy’s behaviour isn’t a result of her supreme parenting and weaning, rather just luck!Exactly. What’s wrong with letting them have a bit of regular cake but not making a big deal out of it? Poor kid. Have you noticed how Ada is constantly labelled as the “difficult one” and Raffy is the golden child by comparison. If Raffy goes through a fussy stage, it’s “oh this is normal, he was probably going through a lot bless him”, if Ada starts throwing food or refusing things, it’s “well obviously I find it incredibly frustrating, she’s not like her brother at all”. Poor Ada is going to see the harsh labelling on social media in years to come and realise just how much she lives in the shadow of her brother!
No wonder Raffy didn’t eat them lentil stuffed jackets they looked rankShe actually said the words “your bother used to do it” to try and convince Ada to blow on a piece of hot quiche in front of herWhy are you serving her food that’s too hot in the first place, she’s one! And why are you yet again explicitly trying to turn her into her brother?!
Also lentil stuffed jacket potato sounds vomit inducing. And I’m mainly veggie
That’s cracked me upLolling at her stories from yesterday - they are off glamping in the lovely little town of Norfolk
This has always annoyed me about her. Absolute control freakery! Ada demonised for having a personality and testing out a spoon in a perfectly normal way, not like perfect Raffy who was a proWatching her hold the spoon and not let Ada do it herself was painful to watch..considering she's meant to be a weaning expert surely she knows they are meant to do it themselves, no wonder she dropped the spoon and used her hands
And pushing her to do things that perfect Raf did! My daughter could quite capably use a use a spoon at 12 months but didn’t because her hands were quickerThis has always annoyed me about her. Absolute control freakery! Ada demonised for having a personality and testing out a spoon in a perfectly normal way, not like perfect Raffy who was a pro
Exactly - all kids get there eventually even if by different routes, because *drum roll* all children are different. Not like any of us were still eating with our hands/shitting ourselves by the time we became adults is it?And pushing her to do things that perfect Raf did! My daughter could quite capably use a use a spoon at 12 months but didn’t because her hands were quickerI just always gave her a spoon and let her do her own thing, it’s not like she’ll be using her hands when she goes to school
I’m not surprised he only wanted to eat those bits, he knew it was a once in a blue moon occurance that he was allowed! She has no concept of a balanced diet does she? Obsessed with only eating healthy, bland, boring and organic. Poor children are being set up for a life time of disordered eating.Poor kid just wants what his peers want maybe?
I wish that instead of putting the ‘unfortunately’ at the end she had put something more positive - like he can eat all those things on occasion and still have a healthy/balanced diet. By demonising them she’s going to make it a far bigger issue in the long run. She comes across as a bit neurotic/overly obsessed with the food they eat.
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