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What continues to boggle the mind is how advertisers clearly don’t properly vet her “media pack”. She lists all sorts of stats about her various social media sites...followers etc. It doesn’t tote up. If she has 17k followers or whatever on Instagram, then why does she hardly ever surpass a couple hundred likes and a few comments from her syncophantic little following of other money grubbing mummies? Even getting those likes probably keep her extended family busy.

Surely the sh**t YouTube stuff is enough alone to deter sponsors. She is probably the least appealing tuber i’ve ever seen, and it’s almost like watching a slow car crash to see her self-serving moaning. Not to judge on looks, but visual media does actually require that one either be attractive or cringeworthy enough to make other losers feel better.

As for the much-flogged concept of Law of attraction, it has been around for donkey’s ages and used by new age cults which basically aim to monetise the concept of mind over matter. The sad flip side of this is clear: if in fact one finds oneself afflicted with a disease, it is therefore one’s fault. Give that one a think, hun.
 
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I think the manifesting tit (and it is total tit) is dangerous. It is one of my issues with CB too.

If it was that easy then people would manifest illness away, manifest festivity issues gone and other stuff and the fact that people have these issues and haven’t manifested them away makes them not worthy.
 
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Ok wait... what???

“Manifesting” is just essentially a fake it til you make it mentality.

Also, you have to laugh... “we don’t have second jobs”... my friend, you don’t even have first jobs never mind bloody second ones.

100% do not believe their money situation has so vastly improved either, that whole monologue felt like it was for the benefit of us. She’s trying to prove she’s not piss poor and wasting money on holidays when bills are going unpaid. There is no way in hell these work shy half-wits have started saving money. She is delusional... utterly delusional.
And If she does in fact have 3 months rent in the bank right now, that is the grand sum of (3 x 800) = £2400
Shows how out of touch with reality they are at ages 39 and 46. Stop wasting your and the internets time pretending you have anything at all to lecture/advise/witch at anyone about. High time to get off the public teat and find a real job.

You barely have your head above water, you will never be a true influencer because anyone with an IQ above 70 will give you an eye roll and move on. Oh and your “Expert” advice on which “Italian” foods to eat...pasta, pizza, polenta, gelato ... my 5 year old could have come up with a more esoteric script. The Italians I know actually eat a Mediterranean diet which rarely if ever includes those foods. That fifth item ... suppli ... deep-fried crap, wow what a healthy recommendation for “family eating”. You just don’t get it. Just because you see pizza slices being flogged off a cart at the leaning tower...doesn’t mean it’s local food. It’s what the locals know they can sell to fat foreigners.
 
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And If she does in fact have 3 months rent in the bank right now, that is the grand sum of (3 x 800) = £2400
Jesus, when you put it like that...a combined 50ish years of being of working age and they managed to put away an average of under 50 quid a year 😲

Oh and your “Expert” advice on which “Italian” foods to eat...pasta, pizza, polenta, gelato ...
This kind of post wouldn't have been written by her, it's a copy and paste job which she would have been paid handsomely for (it's essentially SEO work for the Italian villa company). Of course, you as the reader should have been able to determine this, as there should be a disclosure about it being a collaborative post.... oh wait, nope.
 
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This kind of post wouldn't have been written by her, it's a copy and paste job which she would have been paid handsomely for (it's essentially SEO work for the Italian villa company). Of course, you as the reader should have been able to determine this, as there should be a disclosure about it being a collaborative post.... oh wait, nope.
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The only redeeming thing is that virtually none of her followers could afford those villa prices, let alone the transport to get there. Most of them are way out in the countryside and i’ve done this several times where you need local knowledge to even find the place let alone stock the fridge and self cater for a week. Those gigs generally tote up to about £5000 per person all in, and you need a party of 12 to make it pay.
Some advertisers are such suckers to pay without checking her out. Completely different demographic. She’s never even stayed in Italy....they did a port stop on some crap cruise they scarfed which supposedly docked in Livorno? Pisa is a boring little backwater just up the carriageway and the leaning tower has got to be the most underwhelming experience...out in the middle of nowhere. They have not “done” Italy.
 
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Worried how shes gona cope in Florida next year and on holiday next year......poor baby
 
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Yep it’s another woe is me day on Instagram...”I wonder how I’ve managed to raise really ungrateful children who throw way more tantrums and have much worse behaviour outbursts than other kids”

Your children are unable to feel gratitude since that emotion involves being able to compare experiences they’ve had elsewhere....

Well, hun, how about you start by considering your decision to home school primary children for whom the whole object of early integration is....socialisation. While you are projecting your own fears over whether your kid might have the learning experience of dealing with people he can’t manipulate (teacher and classmates) , you call it protecting him from bullying. What you have actually done is give in to your own separation anxiety. This likely extends to all other facets of dealing with their demands...food, candy, entertainment, attention. You would be much better off spending your spare time learning how to provide them with actual healthy food instead of those ridiculous processed food grocery hauls. Misbehaviour in children is so often diet related, please consider the possibility.

Your “ah do wat I want” attitude is incredibly selfish when you involve small children in your ludicrous fantasies of being an expert at everything. Why do you think other parents either need or want your advice? How can you possibly be a better all round teacher than the professionals? You think trips to Disney will equip them for real life?

Your sorry posts like this are clearly just click bait to draw sympathetic comments from your tatted mummy followers.
 
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From what I have seen of her children(and that is only what she has shared) they are worst behaved than most. They lack structure and discipline. Have no proper bedtime, are spoilt with materialist junk rather than quality time and attention. The best think they could do for the children is find them a school and start laying down some basic rules.
 
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I am not here to preach how people should parent or why I am personally not a fan of home education I do however have mental health issues and anxiety which after some counselling was shown to be "learnt behaviour" from my parents. I am always super paranoid I will pass on this learnt behaviour to my children in the future and feel if I kept the children home (for my own needs I mean no school run, no routine, not have to socialise at the school gates) I would be contributing to problems in the future. I know lots of parents do home school and do it very well but they do it for other reasons that do not seem to be so self centred and have structure. If she is the "bread winner" then she should be working and not try to Juggle it all and her husband should be the main educator. I Just do not understand their set up with the whole thing.

Say she wakes up and has a really bad day so stays in bed, cries or has work to catch up with what happens with the children?

I couldn't imagine being able to run riot, do nothing but fun things and lots of holidays whilst living in a tiny house with no proper garden because my parents priorities were holidays and fun things over hard work and building a better life. I know she reads here, I know she will probably take offence and call me a troll and look me up but I don't get it I really don't. I could go on as above the bedtime and routine or lack of.. but I fear I may get too personal and offend too many people so will leave it as I don't get it :LOL:
 
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I’m a secondary school teacher. I could never teach subjects that were out of my expertise. It baffles me how someone like Hayley thinks she has the skills and knowledge to do it. I’d love to know how they’d get on in external tests and exams!
 
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She severely fucks me off. My MIL has fybromyalgia and is crippled with it, she can’t move and is housebound a lot of the time. This prick claims she has it but is on five+ holidays a year? Amazing the illnesses you can dream up to claim DLA... few google searches on symptoms and no doubt down at her GP with her sob story.

She apparently has a chronic health problem, mental health issues but somehow home schools three children and makes a living as an “influencer”... doesn’t add up. You can’t be sick enough to claim disability benefits but well enough to homeschool three kids.

She is everything that’s wrong with society, she’s raising three spoiled children who will inherit her victim mentality and no doubt go on to be leeches on society... neglecting to pay their landlords in favour of funding their Disney holidays from their benefits while the rest of us mugs work hard for our holidays.

She physically repulses me. Her horrific, ugly personality seeps from every pore and makes her even uglier on the outside.

I would love someone to report her to her local authority for benefit fraud.
 
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Like her or not, really the issue is the damage that can be done to children when people like this run amok. Where else in the western world can a parent pull a small child out of school? Why does Devon or any other county allow it. Surely there is some legislation that requires formal assessment or scrutiny at some point.

While kids usually do turn out just like their parents, perhaps Hayley and Jon should consider whether they wish to condemn their kids to the same fate they have already pretty much dished up for themselves. Give those kids a chance at a proper education, don’t continue the generational benefits grab.
 
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The problem is she has let her own anxiety stop her children and thats so unfair. Her separation anxiety has made her homeschool if thats what you can call it because to me it seems like she does duck all home schooling.

Without being horrible you can tell all of her kids are well behind. Not being nasty to the kids because its her fault shes holding them back.
 
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Wow her kids sound like such brats! He hit her over the head? My kids would be stripped of everything if they ever dreamed do that to us.

She and her partner are such lazy parents they obviously spoil them rotten which is why they are like they are. Home schooling is making that worse as she's never having the time away from them that she needs.
 
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I'm calling BS on the new stories. If you talk about weight and body image as much as she does, you definitely always look for it on other people that you meet.
Theres turning a blind eye to others weight but shes making herself ill because shes turning a blind eye to her own weight....
 
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I haven’t caught up with this thread. I followed her last year for around two weeks.
I have chronic physical illnesses diagnosed by specialists. And watched a couple of vlogs thinking oh a mum with chronic illness might be nice to watch.
Screw that. She gives people like myself a bad name. I obviously don’t know much about her or what she’s been up to lately. But it’s like this and jumping on the mental illness band wagon. Just really grates on me. It’s an insult to those who really are unwell and wouldn’t be posting every little detail of their lives and children to the world.
Anyway that’s just my thoughts.
 
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She severely fucks me off. My MIL has fybromyalgia and is crippled with it, she can’t move and is housebound a lot of the time. This prick claims she has it but is on five+ holidays a year? Amazing the illnesses you can dream up to claim DLA... few google searches on symptoms and no doubt down at her GP with her sob story.

She apparently has a chronic health problem, mental health issues but somehow home schools three children and makes a living as an “influencer”... doesn’t add up. You can’t be sick enough to claim disability benefits but wo”ell enough to homeschool three kids.

She is everything that’s wrong with society, she’s raising three spoiled children who will inherit her victim mentality and no doubt go on to be leeches on society... neglecting to pay their landlords in favour of funding their Disney holidays from their benefits while the rest of us mugs work hard for our holidays.

She physically repulses me. Her horrific, ugly personality seeps from every pore and makes her even uglier on the outside.

I would love someone to report her to her local authority for benefit fraud.
I have done some research now on these people. Too bad they started this off by lying and getting me fired from a customer support job .. yep, my kids went hungry while I regrouped. Thanks Sparkles and Hopalong for that. I fortunately took on a post as a skip tracer and learned some valuable research skills. Using completely open and publicly available records, I have gathered quite a bit of background on each of them. I no longer work in HR but it was valuable experience to see how some of these operators work.

Not to be stalkish because I truly don’t give a toss how they end up, I think I do have some degree of concern for their kids, not so much for their innocence, as for their situational potential to be another generation of uneducated leeches if their parents aren’t brought to task. Window dressing will no longer serve as a cover up.

We are talking about records going back some time, but there is a pattern. Facts:

1. He was done for benefits fraud by Cornwall Council along with his ex wife in a co-judgment in Truro Crown Court in 2010. They went after him and her for repayment probably by garnishee of wages. She was deemed to have been falsely claiming housing benefit through disability that was found to be non existent. He was obliged to repay his carer benefits which he was claiming despite having a job. All there in the court documents. Oh and he had changed his name to a double-barrelled one matching the wife. She still goes by that name.
2. Public record: He was married to a woman 22 years older than himself for a few years and she still advertises herself online as a practising Wiccan. No record of their having divorced although still possible. This is likely where the whole “law of attraction - wishful thinking - casting spells” crap originates that they have started theming on her blog. Now, some people subscribe to this, but it is basically hocus pocus that Hayley has probably absorbed from his chuntering on about it.
3. She admitted in a blog a couple years back that they had attended citizens advice or the Paignton equivalent and made the decision to declare voluntary insolvency. H&J thereby walked away from their doorstep loans with reduced repayment. She said at the time that it would limit their ability to borrow money for a while.
4. Records indicate that he was fired by Royal Mail for cause in 2010. Potential employer search easily reveals this. Could limit his potential for employment in any public sector job.

There is stuff around about her as well but I can’t be arsed to list it all. Suffice to say the dark horse behind this folly is likely a guy who likes to appear all wet, but who in fact gets off on watching the sh*t show unfold. Lazy gint isn’t even man enough to get a proper job and support his family. Just annoys everyone with his high pitched Geordie whinging on YouTube and lets her pussy whip him. Made even sadder by the present inclusion of children’s issues in the mix. Not sure what the answer is to their modus operandi because these types always find a new way to shape shift. I just wish they weren’t so arsy and public about it. Skilled writers they are not. Time to,admit it.

If they just got their kids in school, got jobs, and stopped obsessing about scamming free stuff and pretending to be flush. This absolute hogwash about “honesty” as a theme is complete pap...and self delusion. I wonder if Hayley truly understands that most people who bother to click her button are actually laughing and shaking their heads. What is this country coming to?
 
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I have done some research now on these people. Too bad they started this off by lying and getting me fired from a customer support job .. yep, my kids went hungry while I regrouped. Thanks Sparkles and Hopalong for that. I fortunately took on a post as a skip tracer and learned some valuable research skills. Using completely open and publicly available records, I have gathered quite a bit of background on each of them. I no longer work in HR but it was valuable experience to see how some of these operators work.

Not to be stalkish because I truly don’t give a toss how they end up, I think I do have some degree of concern for their kids, not so much for their innocence, as for their situational potential to be another generation of uneducated leeches if their parents aren’t brought to task. Window dressing will no longer serve as a cover up.

We are talking about records going back some time, but there is a pattern. Facts:

1. He was done for benefits fraud by Cornwall Council along with his ex wife in a co-judgment in Truro Crown Court in 2010. They went after him and her for repayment probably by garnishee of wages. She was deemed to have been falsely claiming housing benefit through disability that was found to be non existent. He was obliged to repay his carer benefits which he was claiming despite having a job. All there in the court documents. Oh and he had changed his name to a double-barrelled one matching the wife. She still goes by that name.
2. Public record: He was married to a woman 22 years older than himself for a few years and she still advertises herself online as a practising Wiccan. No record of their having divorced although still possible. This is likely where the whole “law of attraction - wishful thinking - casting spells” crap originates that they have started theming on her blog. Now, some people subscribe to this, but it is basically hocus pocus that Hayley has probably absorbed from his chuntering on about it.
3. She admitted in a blog a couple years back that they had attended citizens advice or the Paignton equivalent and made the decision to declare voluntary insolvency. H&J thereby walked away from their doorstep loans with reduced repayment. She said at the time that it would limit their ability to borrow money for a while.
4. Records indicate that he was fired by Royal Mail for cause in 2010. Potential employer search easily reveals this. Could limit his potential for employment in any public sector job.

There is stuff around about her as well but I can’t be arsed to list it all. Suffice to say the dark horse behind this folly is likely a guy who likes to appear all wet, but who in fact gets off on watching the sh*t show unfold. Lazy gint isn’t even man enough to get a proper job and support his family. Just annoys everyone with his high pitched Geordie whinging on YouTube and lets her pussy whip him. Made even sadder by the present inclusion of children’s issues in the mix. Not sure what the answer is to their modus operandi because these types always find a new way to shape shift. I just wish they weren’t so arsy and public about it. Skilled writers they are not. Time to,admit it.

If they just got their kids in school, got jobs, and stopped obsessing about scamming free stuff and pretending to be flush. This absolute hogwash about “honesty” as a theme is complete pap...and self delusion. I wonder if Hayley truly understands that most people who bother to click her button are actually laughing and shaking their heads. What is this country coming to?
She got you fired from your job?!! Scum
 
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