I cannot imagine sending my kids for a sleepover with their cousins (which they do regularly and absolutely love) and having them eat dinner crowded around a table with my sister’s vulva adoring the walls. Like I truly can’t imagine the conversation I’d have upon their return about the strange wall art of their aunt’s genitals?
And as always, encouraging and glorifying a 5 year old’s age inappropriate behaviour gives me such an uneasy feeling. If performing in such a way is the acts that get her attention in her house, and she’s in a home where private areas are hung on the walls, it’s not a big leap to imagine how someone with bad intentions could encourage her into similar behaviours outside of the home. She plays up for the camera constantly and I just feel so concerned thinking about how all of that could be exploited in a sinister way.