It’s a load of tit to pretend he is busy. What 40 year old does volunteering abroad that’s so weird it’s more of a gap year early 20s thing to do not something for a grown man with a child. Not to mention it can cost at least £300 and takes a lot of planning and documents that take at least 2-3 months to validate. He is talking straight out of his ass as usual but I would love to see how the lie plays out for him.This whole volunteering thing seems so off to me. He said he wants to go to another country to challenge himself when in reality it’s likely if he where to volunteer here he wouldn’t pass the checks, yeah a dbs might be clear but they’ll also search his name and find a plethora of information on why he is a danger. But I also don’t think he really is volunteering, I don’t know it just seems like such a random thing for him to be doing. He lies so much it’s hard to believe. Also would love to know how he can afford all this as he’ll also have to pay child maintenance as he can’t claim he can’t afford it when he’s off travelling the country to do things I’m sure he could do in his home town.