Hola hamigos,
Had an early night last night so missed most of the shenanigans.
I find it extremely concerning that Paul sees nothing wrong with his actions, it sheds a lot of light into why he lost his job for being unprofessional with others if he thinks this is normal behaviour.
Another thing that really pisses me off is that he thinks we are just saying this as a witch-hunt.
Does he not realise that apart from a few normal, level headed males that can see through his tit, the majority of us are female. Our female intuition is going into overdrive, I don’t know about you but from the first moment I saw him something was off. Or we’ve had experiences with men like this, been there done that and know the red flags a mile off.
Paul really does think it’s ok because she’s 24. I’m not blocked and the only conversations I ever see him have is about sex, him slut shaming her or making awful sexual innuendos. Reminds me of those sleezy men you meet down the pub near closing time.
But even at my age of 31, a man speaking to me like that would make me feel so uncomfortable. Paul doesn’t speak to anyone around his own age apart from turbo. And not only are younger girls his preference, I find it hard to believe he has any redeeming features that a mature, 30-40 year old lady would see in him. He’s living like a teenager in his dads house, ‘dancing’ (I used that term loosely) in his en-suite and spending his days walking around fields on his own taking shite b&w pictures calling it his ‘photography’. I don’t think he has any idea the the amount of knowledge you need to be a photographer.
Younger girls are also a lot easier to manipulate.
Sorry for the essay. I just really needed to get this out as I’m so done with his shite.
Hi x