Guys I’m having an internal crisis. One part of me doesn’t believe he will do anything and is sick of him being the boy who cried wolf.
On the other hand, I lost a dear friend many years ago when they decided they didn’t want to be on this world anymore and I just can’t stop thinking about that.
I’m very conflicted about which part of me I go with..
I completely get where you’re coming from. If Paul was just a regular guy, who started talking like this on a live, then I would be extremely worried.
However, you need to look at his behaviours:
1. He’s done this before with Frankie
2. He’s a Narcissist.
3. It’s only happening after Sophie has confirmed they aren’t together, but saying they’re in good terms.
4. He’s telling people to ‘delete me’ instead of deleting social media (his Instagram and FB are still there), wanting women.. mothers mainly who have had that maternal instinct permanently injected into them after giving birth to care for, worry, and ultimately… become his mother.
I understand he lost his mum 20 years ago, and the pain he must have felt and still feel, I will never ever dampen that or disregard that, but instead of looking for a companion who can keep him company, help him grow a strong happy life with (he has this but that failed), he wants a mother, like Tina who will comfort him and console him, and when he’s feeling ‘himself’ his predatory behaviours will start again.. notice how the women he goes for are the age he was when she passed… he’s stuck in that period of his life and instead of dealing and growing from it he is in Groundhog Day.
I’m not a medical expert, and this is just my opinion, but I’ve watched a lot of criminal minds and studied profiling so can see elements.
Sophie has her faults my god, but I honestly think she’s alright!
