I think we tend to "like" James a bit more because people like his content but also because he doesn't share much about his life. I mean, I don't have Twitter so the Lego posts are news to me, but I feel like he'd also be annoying if he was sharing his life like Deli is
I think people are more annoyed about Deligracy's way of spending money than James' because James' Legos are his hobby and he seems to be hardworking (compared to Deli at least), and he doesn't complain about not being able to afford ALL organic veggies or "having to" cut on milk and maple syrup because it's too expensive. When you choose a 250$ dress that looks like it's from Shein over actual high quality food, yes, I find you dumb af.
Regarding the expensive foods she buys, I don't think it's bad per say, but I find it humorous that she keeps spending money on expensive
tit just because it's expensive and because it sounds special (organic, ghee, extra virgin olive oil...) when she has proven time and again that she has NO clue why they're actually better, because she doesn't research anything. It's this mindset of "oh I've heard it's good and it's expensive so it has to be good and I'll buy it". I'd respect her more if she was actually trying to buy zero waste things or locally produced foods (or food that is not super far from her) or at least researched things she buys.
But I think in the end the annoying thing for all of us is how she keeps complaining about things being expensive. There is nothing more annoying than someone pushing their privilege on you AND STILL complaining. I'm happy for her that she can afford healthy foods and blablabla but when you complain you have to know your audience, don't complain to us who I'm sure a lot are struggling or at least can't afford to spend 250$ on a dumb dress every other day.
She could probably afford the other stuff she wants if she was more careful about her money in general... But she won't, because she wants it all, she doesn't want to compromise on anything, she wants that lifestyle that she can't actually (fully) afford. She'll spend all her money and then be like "oh oops I got no money left", that's not how life as an adult works. If you know you'll need money for house renovation, you BUDGET, you choose where you'll cut some spendings, you work harder to bring more money home (since she can)... Who needs a bunch of 50$ cushions for example, I bet her sofa decoration is worth more than my entire flat furniture at this point