I am not a fan of Justin, but I can't help myself from deffending him a little bit. He became famous pretty much overnight when he was a child. His parents didn't care about him and were ok with him beeing managed by the industry and shady adults.
All of a sudden he was a millionaire, nobody was telling him no, he was/is surrounded by 'yess' people and had everything at his feet. I mean, I moved from my city home to another state to study when I was 17, and def lost it a bit and I didn't have money at all, just what my mum sent me for food, rent and basic stuff, so I can't imagine what I would have done in his possition or with overnight wealth.
Also, everyone prasied him. I think that, rn he is starting to get it, like he is living a long hangover of his previous years, but doesn't know how to adult like a real person.
On the other side, I think celeb relationships are weird AF. As 'normal' people, we have to be more practical and think the consecuences of marring, divorcing, dating or not dating, etc, but famous peeps don't give any second toughts at things like housing, money, so and so.
If Hayley gets fed up with him, she just can leave, and so does Justin, neither of them would become jobless or homeless. I hope they love each other and are living their best lifes, but sometimes I feel like celeb marriages are so rushed out because, for them, is just like dating.
Bout Selena, I don't like her, I think she is as messed as JB is, but just better at PR and playing the victim roll. I know he was an asshole towards him, but she HAS TO STOP with those 'not about Justin, but def about Justin' songs.
Yep, her bff Taylor does that, but at the least she owns it and doesn't play victim, instead she tells her side of the story, uses her feelings and artistic abilities to channel everything and moves on.