"Pick me"If you go into Barbie from a ‘pick me’ standpoint and aren’t prepared to challenge yourself then you will struggle. The theory that it’s man hating and brainwashes women into staying single or whatever is laughable- as evidenced by that (no spoilers) very last line that Margot Robbie speaks in the whole thing
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There are no lack of films that promote the other values you seem so attached to , in fact they are by far in the majority and aren’t going anywhere any time soon so it seems very pearl-clutching and like you have a victim complex to be so offended by something like this. There are literally also dozens of traditional Barbie films out there.