In her stories about wanting to "balance this mornings reality" where she's differentiating between the morning where her "vibes were high" when everything was "going to plan and you're in a flow" and she calls it a "positive mindset" in contrast to post lunch when "everything went downhill -- it struck me so sharply that what she terms "positive" is just things going her way. When she's in control and life is cooperating with her plans. When the kids are showing their own challenges or their personalities and growth spurts, and that challenges her it becomes "raw and real" and what she often terms as "not a vibe" or says they're "not thriving".
I find this to be SO telling about her emotional maturity and resilience. Al of us get to a point in life where something in our reality oushes us to build this naturally. OR WE GO TO THERAPY WHEN WE ARE CONSISTENTLY NOT THRIVING. Sis here, keeps piling her plate on more, spreading hrself even more thin, escapes her reality through an eating disorder and over working out.
She has serious issues with control. She probably thinks if youre rich enough life will always listen to your plans. Dumb idiot, so much of what she frames as "positivity" is just control issues in disguise.
Maybe M is in that 4 month regression, and maybe he is in fact sick, but I get the strong feeling she is majorly exaggerating the reality to bring the focus on to herself and how much she is struggling. I don't buy that he's actually as badly off. She is suffering because she has control issues and doesnt know how to cope with what is actually a relatively natural progression with kids the ages hers are. She is not in control, so she's coming unhinged.
How bloody ironic for her to show up looking the way she is with YET ANOTHER manic whingyyyyy set of stories about how shes sleep deprived, showing off her dark circles and eating hot chips and takeout bbq chicken, just days adyter her 2 week reset aka WeLLneSs WeEk
This is probably reality for every new mum of two, but its this whoooole big drama for her.
Kudos to you, I dont know how you mummas do it
Sarah has ruinedthe image of motherhood for me. I am chilfree by choice, so it's not like she put me off babies or anything, but I notice a general disdain for complainy mums building in me, so thank you for sharing your reality because it made meremember that not everyone is sarah. She is one imbecile in a million, unfortunately with a platform and a means to broadcast her BS.
I find this to be SO telling about her emotional maturity and resilience. Al of us get to a point in life where something in our reality oushes us to build this naturally. OR WE GO TO THERAPY WHEN WE ARE CONSISTENTLY NOT THRIVING. Sis here, keeps piling her plate on more, spreading hrself even more thin, escapes her reality through an eating disorder and over working out.
She has serious issues with control. She probably thinks if youre rich enough life will always listen to your plans. Dumb idiot, so much of what she frames as "positivity" is just control issues in disguise.
Maybe M is in that 4 month regression, and maybe he is in fact sick, but I get the strong feeling she is majorly exaggerating the reality to bring the focus on to herself and how much she is struggling. I don't buy that he's actually as badly off. She is suffering because she has control issues and doesnt know how to cope with what is actually a relatively natural progression with kids the ages hers are. She is not in control, so she's coming unhinged.
How bloody ironic for her to show up looking the way she is with YET ANOTHER manic whingyyyyy set of stories about how shes sleep deprived, showing off her dark circles and eating hot chips and takeout bbq chicken, just days adyter her 2 week reset aka WeLLneSs WeEk
This is probably reality for every new mum of two, but its this whoooole big drama for her.
YES THIS. I feel like on the outside she has ALL the means and can set herself up to really manage this. It might still be a struggle and she will have to multitask and spread herself thin, but it's doable. Problem is, her issues with this aren't logistical or for the lack of systems and help, it's an internal emotional/psychological struggle. Her biggest issue is she hates admitting that she's struggling. SOmetimes that is the breakthrough one needs, but I honestly dont think she will ever get there. Her ideas of strength are fucked. Sometimes being resilient is to be vulnerable, accept your limitations and recalibrate. Sis will NEVERRRRR.
Kudos to you, I dont know how you mummas do it
Sarah has ruinedthe image of motherhood for me. I am chilfree by choice, so it's not like she put me off babies or anything, but I notice a general disdain for complainy mums building in me, so thank you for sharing your reality because it made meremember that not everyone is sarah. She is one imbecile in a million, unfortunately with a platform and a means to broadcast her BS.
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I think the problem here is once upon a time mums used to glamorise everything and wouldn’t talk about the bad side to being a mum. Now it’s the opposite, not all the time but a lot. Don’t get me wrong motherhood/parenthood is hard. I’m also a mum who has ADHD and has generalised anxiety. I find myself being negative a lot, but more so to get things off my chest, and never in front of my children. what we don’t realise is the opposite happens and it turns people off being a parent. Being a parent is a privilege these kids deserve the best/caring/loving childhood ever regardless of their parents age or situations. So many people have told my husband and I how proud they are and shocked how we have been through our journey so far. (I fell pregnant at 18) As I said it is not our kids fault we had them young, so we are doing everything in our power to give them the best lives we can in our situation, we aren’t perfect but our intentions are pure. We are constantly talking together about where we can improve and what we can do to help parent the kids as best we can. This includes both of us seeing councillors, and researching. Open minds are important, being able to open our minds for our kids is the best thing we could do. They are our number one priority and never in a million years would I exploit my children for money/bash them publicly online or even in private for my own gain. Or even for people to feel sorry for me, I don’t want anyone to feel sorry for me, I just need to unload some of my feelings to those I trust. At the end of the day it’s these kids that are the victims and are going to be very mixed up later on in life. Not to mention all the other problematic things she’s already taught f, my oldest is a similar age and there is no way she knows what bad and good food is. What a way to teach a 3 year old how to have an ED.
