I came here to say the exact same thing, my heart breaks for that little boy, why couldn’t she pick him up on the way to the beach - imagine how he is going to feel when he finally gets picked up and Isla tells him she’s been to the beach without himI know he’ll have two weeks off nursery now but it’s only because they’re going to Scotland, also why didn’t she pick him up then go to the beach all together?
I reckon hes used to it, rob took isla to the trampoline place and stuck him in nursery and they always used to do costa dates with just isla.I came here to say the exact same thing, my heart breaks for that little boy, why couldn’t she pick him up on the way to the beach - imagine how he is going to feel when he finally gets picked up and Isla tells him she’s been to the beach without him
She is a pathetic excuse of a mother!Exactly! I could never go to the beach with one child knowing that my other child could easily be there too. She doesn’t deserve that little boy. It’s absolutely shameful.
This! Im sorry to hear you and your son had a rocky start but it shows what an incredible Mum you are to work on the relationship and to 'fix' it. How old was yours when you started to spend more time with him?I'm ashamed to admit that I had problems bonding with one of my kids, he was more challenging in his behaviour than the others and would deliberately wind me up. I loved him dearly but didn't 'like' him much. ( I feel dreadful admitting this) As he got older I saw there was a real danger of a rift developing between us so what did I do? I made time to have him on a one to one basis. I took him out on his own, spent real quality time with him. It wasn't easy, it took lots of planning and we still argued and fell out, but slowly we grew to like one another. He is a grown man now and living happily with his g/f in their own home but rings me several times a week for a chat or to suggest getting together. We are incredibly close and I couldn't be prouder of the lovely person he is. Sarah, your relationship with Isla looks solid, she is older and has had you all to herself before Lachlan came along and you are still prioritising her needs. She looks the kind of child to boast to her brother about the fun she has had while he has been at nursery. Make time for him, pick him up first sometimes, take him for little treats by himself. Yes you will have to listen to boring boys talk about power rangers and such like, but pretend to be interested, find stuff to talk about that is special to you and Lachlan, let Isla take a back seat sometimes and let Lachlan see that he is special too.
I can’t believe this.Exactly! I could never go to the beach with one child knowing that my other child could easily be there too. She doesn’t deserve that little boy. It’s absolutely shameful.
He was older than Lachlan, probably around seven or eight, which is when our real issues started. Funnily enough it was his older brother who was harder to handle as a toddler and little boy and I think because I spent more time dealing with that the younger one acted up as well, subconsciously felt he wasn't getting the attention and resorted to challenging behaviour.This! Im sorry to hear you and your son had a rocky start but it shows what an incredible Mum you are to work on the relationship and to 'fix' it. How old was yours when you started to spend more time with him?
I worry Sarah isnt gonna get any relationship with L. Shes got a year until he starts school.
We don’t really have bubbles in Scotland so once’s she is here it’ll be different for her.She is going to use the fact that she is a 'single' parent as a way to class her mum and dad as her bubble.