Our local primary don’t let you put reception kids into clubs for the first two terms, their rational being the kids are exhausted after school and need to go home and chill abs some were only just 4 So still very little. Breakfast club was allowed for working parents and after school was too but priority was given to parents working full time and it wasn’t a free for all for anyone to drop their kids at. Sarah MAY actually have to parent him and feed the kids more often rather then relying on nursery for him.
Yeah, kids at that age parrot and copy what they see at home or what is said to them/others around them. Sad really and not his fault, but won’t make his transition to school easy.