Giving someone jewellery in itself is a personal type of gift. It’s like picking a perfume out for someone you don’t know! You just don’t do it.
When I think of the consultant I was under through both my pregnancies I think of a very professional man, zero BS, zero time for pandering - thorough but in and out which is exactly what I would expect him to be and then the idea of giving him cufflinks!!!
I would DIE with the cringe! He will find it extremely uncomfortable, and will see it as crossing a line. I’d LOVE if he didn’t accept them.
I’d say she dropped them at the reception and was bulling they weren’t there to thank her and tell her how happy they are
because they won’t be! It’s crossing a line and it’s not acceptable behaviour between patient and doctor/nursing staff.