Absolutely no judgement here at all. I think its a really brave decision to make because it means putting yourself and your husband first and that is not always easy. Both our families are dying for us to have children-there are already grandchildren on both sides from our siblings but relations arent great with both daughter in laws so I understand them wanting us to have a family. But it's just not for us. My age is a factor and increases risks and we don't want it enough to risk that. Plus we love the little life we have and the freedom-though we go nowhere really
. It has been hard but they have finally stopped dropping little hints.
Ah thank you so much. To be honest it was quite an easy decision like we started the ball rolling because I suppose society is saying we should and so many people saying we'll regret it (I have to say I do believe Sarah when she says that people have asked her straight out cos I do the whole time), and then sure we are saying we'll regret it but that's not a good reason to have a child, I have no feeling of broodiness or urge at all. We are just like you I'd say, enjoying our life and like you, there's the age thing too, I'm 38 and he's almost 46 and has a lot of health and mental health issues so we will enjoy it. I wish you both the best, here's to happiness and as Carrie Bradshaw would say, just us !
Wow, both you and your husband are incredible mature, generous people
Ah that's so lovely of you to say, really sweet.sure we aren't really, it's just such a big and expensive procedure to have done when you aren't dying for a child and doing it for the wrong reasons is so bad. Sarah getting it free when she wants a child for all the wrong reasons is just so bad! Make it more affordable for people to do instead of gifting it to this dickhead as an advertisement. It's so wrong.
I am wondering from a labelling perspective on her stories is she getting a discount to share, so it's not fully gifted but discounted?
Anytime this knob is saying waiting til she's ready 'im ready , wait til I'm ready' reminds me of my nephew, he was just learning to use the toiket and couldnt wipe his arse so used to go for a dump and yell that he's ready so we could sort him out.
There's a random thought for a Friday afternoon