Saoirseandmama #2

[petal1]

Mamma could do with having a read of this. Now, in fairness, she doesn't share all of the things mentioned in this post, but she does share FR's very private grief, and the daily news performance is unsettling and unnecessary too.

 

[petal1]

We can't see Mama but we can see her preschool child, walking to her sister's grave, complete with black (mourning?) ribbon. It's so messed up.The child is on Insta purely for her mother's benefit

 

[ChastityDingle]

I think someone needs to - gently - take her phone away from her.

I wouldn't presume for a millisecond to know what she, her husband, their little daughter and the wider family are going through.

I know there are people who have channelled their grief through helping others, like the Gavin Glynn Foundation for example. Maybe doing something like that would help her, in time, I don't know.

Poor little Saoirse, what a brave young lass, may she rest in peace.

 

[Notgoingonlineagaintoday]

I hope she asked her husband before she posted his private note to his daughter who passed away.

 

[#transparency]

Please tell me they didn't do a balloon release at the funeral. So environmentally irresponsible

I think it is good you mentioned this and to educate others to the negative side of balloon release. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.

 

[Ellegee]

Oh god I was one always on here defending her. She needs to be told to stop posting

I knew this would happen. There are too many strangers invested in their lives & the privacy of FR doesn’t cross their minds. For as long as there is an enquiring audience, she will continue to share. I’m still not over the fact that people actually shared her reel of S & her final days, it’s actually sick.

 

[MrsBsDayOff]

There's no good reason to EVER show a child's bedroom, a private space, on social media. I can't understand anyone who does it.

 

[EM777]

Wow I actually feel so uncomfortable looking at her "influencing" on a page that was all about poor Saoirse. Maybe I was naiive but I didn't think she'd go back to all this, so soon anyway. And of course adding in about how happy Saoirse would be about it just to stop the negative comments from people

 

[Jollyolly]

It’s not the coffee shop fault but I wouldn’t buy from it after seeing it being used at a child’s grave. Worst and sickest collab ever seen . Unbelievable carried out by a parent. The hand with coffee placed over a child’s grave. Too upsetting

I doubt it was a collab, that would imply the coffee shop asked her to tag them in exchange for payment/payment in kind. I'm sure the owner is as horrified as us tattlers.

 

[AH HERE]

I’m sorry their pain must be incredible but that video is so private. Or should have being. Their beautiful little girl is literally dying in those photos. She looks so sick. Why would you share such private family moments on Instagram I just can’t fathom it. Unfortunately there are families going through this all over the country and they are not showing videos of their final days together. contrary to Rosanas belief she is not the nations child. She is hers and and her dads.
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Same here I have followed too. I'm stunned

Me as well. I can’t even think about them without getting upset. Her grandparents, extended family. Her wee school friends and teachers. But I’m a stranger and have no right to be so upset about this but due to being exposed to it on insta I feel invested. So I wont follow any more either i feel I’m intruding in someone’s privacy

 

[Lucydowl]

I think it’s disgusting exploiting any child’s privacy regardless of circumstances and if anyone thinks it’s for the mother’s benefit well she should try alternative therapy to protect her children. It’s also much too cruel for kids and other families who may be suffering in similar situations.

 

[I got up at 5am]

I’ve seen her post shared on a few stories of people I know today. The same people that follow all the mourn porn like vultures desperate to be on the fringe of a tragedy for some sort of dopamine hit. These people need serious help. It’s not content or a funny meme. A child died.

 

[ploddertoo]

She has posted since Saoirse passed but hasn't updated her bio? Very strange

I’m sure to actually change her bio is emotionally very difficult for her

 

[dontcome@me]

That reel was absolutely shocking. From how unwell the poor child looked to videoing the hearse with the coffin inside. What in Gods name is she doing, please for the love of God will her friends and family step in now to stop this social media over sharing

 

[Ellegee]

In her story this morning I thought little FR looked so sad

That child is being coached. Notice how she glances towards mum at the end.

 

[ChastityDingle]

Remember this is a mother who thought it appropriate to use her phone to film her child’s hearse from inside her car on the way to her funeral.

That still shocks me tbh.

If she wanted to do it, that, among other photos and video clips should have remained private to herself, and very close family, in my opinion.

As regards the award, it's lovely that it was awarded to Saoirse, albeit due to the saddest of circumstances. But giving shout outs and tags about her tan and her dress, seems quite disrespectful of her child - again - in my opinion.
I think she has become addicted to the Instagram 'fame', unfortunately.

I would not claim for even a millisecond to have an ounce of insight into how it feels to bury a child. Every parent's worst nightmare, I cannot even begin to imagine.

 

[ChastityDingle]

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Isn't this the truth.

Poor little FR. Her whole life from birth was with Saoirse very sick, which would have made for a far from ideal early childhood. Wouldn't you think, now Saoirse is gone, the last thing they'd want for their precious FR is for her to be on social media? I'd want to keep her safe and certainly wouldn't want thousands of strangers to recognise her by name.

I just can't understand Mama at all. Her one remaining baby and she has her front and centre on Instagram and the child still in playschool

That little girl is her ongoing ticket to instagram 'fame'. It's absolutely dreadful to see her being used like that.

 

[whocarez]

She's a Hun she's using the death to increase her engagement! she knows what she's doing

 

[ChastityDingle]

i guess instagram will be a way for them to keep saoirse memory and a distraction too

I agree.
But I do think those posts should have been to a very very limited audience.

And she should allow her little girl privacy now too, the child probably barely understands what has happened and definitely wouldn't have any concept of how social media works - and rightly so, obviously.

I'm not judging the poor woman, I don't know what it's like, but I do think those moments are really really precious and private, and should have been kept that way.

My heart truly goes out to them and to all who lose a child, in any circumstances. Unimaginable.

 

[SusanH]

I feel they were Catapulted into the Limelight after the Toy Show. And im sure the parents were told from the beginning how long beautiful Saoirse may or may not have left. So alot of Childhood Cancer Charities supported them and treated them to once in a lifetime trip, gifts etc , which they all deserved. I also think the Mam used Instagram as a way to document and save memories, photos and Videos of her beautiful Girl and family for the little time she would have, so they would have somewhere to look back at.
Yea the Mam did a few, very few Ads, Collabs , but it may have been an escape for her, god knows the stress shes been under and it was a way to escape for a few mins for herself. The Dad was working so he had there to escape to Daily. She is nothing like the other Instahuns..

This is my opinion, im heartbroken for them all.
And if you read my posts on other Instahuns , im not one to hold back.

I actually think the same, it was a distraction for the mum and maybe a way for her not to feel alone. I’m sure they probably had a pretty good idea when the cancer came back a second time that the odds were not in her favour. I can’t stop thinking about them, is anyone else really triggered by all of this 🥹 it’s so beyond sad. I unfollowed the mum ages ago as it upset me to see them, not cause I didn’t like them but because I just felt incredibly sad