Saoirseandmama #2

[SusanH]

I feel they were Catapulted into the Limelight after the Toy Show. And im sure the parents were told from the beginning how long beautiful Saoirse may or may not have left. So alot of Childhood Cancer Charities supported them and treated them to once in a lifetime trip, gifts etc , which they all deserved. I also think the Mam used Instagram as a way to document and save memories, photos and Videos of her beautiful Girl and family for the little time she would have, so they would have somewhere to look back at.
Yea the Mam did a few, very few Ads, Collabs , but it may have been an escape for her, god knows the stress shes been under and it was a way to escape for a few mins for herself. The Dad was working so he had there to escape to Daily. She is nothing like the other Instahuns..

This is my opinion, im heartbroken for them all.
And if you read my posts on other Instahuns , im not one to hold back.

I actually think the same, it was a distraction for the mum and maybe a way for her not to feel alone. I’m sure they probably had a pretty good idea when the cancer came back a second time that the odds were not in her favour. I can’t stop thinking about them, is anyone else really triggered by all of this 🥹 it’s so beyond sad. I unfollowed the mum ages ago as it upset me to see them, not cause I didn’t like them but because I just felt incredibly sad

 

[Hector Crowbar.]

The picture of FR standing over the grave broke my heart can’t imagine what they are all going through ! So numb

What you don't get to see is mama's directions for the "perfect" angle.

Let's not kid ourselves into believing that anything is spontaneous on Instagram.

 

[whocarez]

I will probably get slated for this but they were able to go to a formal black tie event for accept an award and get all dressed up, pose for photos etc but can't go to a christening for their nephew which you would imagine would only mainly have family members in attendance.

ya I thought the exact same, I would rather be with my family dressed in anything than in black tie surrounded by strangers

I suppose it depends on what is more insta worthy for some

 

[blinkllama]

That reel was absolutely shocking. From how unwell the poor child looked to videoing the hearse with the coffin inside. What in Gods name is she doing, please for the love of God will her friends and family step in now to stop this social media over sharing

I came here to see was I not alone in thinking her latest posts were too much, how would you think to film your child’s hearse to make a reel later that didn’t sit well and then the pictures

 

[Notgoingonlineagaintoday]

Does she really think that people are interested in her? That if she never had a sick child that she has anything to add to the influencer world? She built this following on the back of her daughter and now she is continuing to ride the wave that mourn porn has created. That makes me sick.

 

[Tammys]

Wouldent your heart just break for that small girl
God love her she looking at her sisters grave.
Jezs can she be afforded any privacy.

 

[Curlique]

I’ve been listening to the mamma and taking a look properly at the insta and I’ve changed my mind a lot on the mam. Used to think she was a mam who capitalised on the daughters cancer for her own attention and fame. I still believe there’s an element of that. Especially when you watch back their videos and see the micro moments where the daughter is clearly irritated at the mam’s pushiness but then realises there’s a camera there and quickly smiles nicely.

BUT I think the mam and family are decent especially with the donating excess money raised for the daughter for others; she came across as incredibly grateful and appreciative of the support etc. And the whole situation is a nightmare for any parent. I think inevitably the mam will go on to raise money and support for other families. Yes she’s a bit hyper but I don’t think she’s as bad as I initially assumed.

She doesn't look as grabby since she removed "email for collabs" from her bio but remember the girls in the awful Tesco summer garb that she advertised, and that Carraig Donn try on, and the 'oh can anyone recommend a makeup brush cleaner" post and the next day the gifted one? Taking Saoirse to the bperfect Galway launch when flu/RSV and other viruses were raging before Christmas?

All that without forgetting poor FR performing for the camera like a trained pet with her "Happy Xday" videos.

My heart goes out to them at this sad time but Roseanna would do well to delete the socials and focus on being a Mammy to FR and abandon all wannabe influencer carry on.

 

[Chatty9]

I cannot get my head around the fact that people they don't know would visit her grave, so in theory they could go to visit the grave and meet randomners at it?? And she's OK with that? They would probably take selfies with the family etc
If this is true that strangers are visiting the grave that is so odd and inappropriate. The fact Mamma seems ok or more than OK about it is even weirder!!!
Surely people aren't saying to eachother from random parts of the country let's head to Saoirse's grave tomorrow and make a day of it!! That's absolutely sick tbh.

The only people's graves I have visited that weren't friends or family were seriously famous people, not a little girl whose life was tragically cut short due to cancer.

 

[Lucydowl]

This is a coffee cup being held over a child’s grave and the shop being tagged. No one can tell me that’s dignified or humanely respectful.

 

[Lucydowl]

Sometimes it sounds like inexplicable grief and disbelief but with her theres an awful gut feeling theres a purpose of posting these private moments to keep content and engagement high for future commercial gain. Hopefully not, those children deserve privacy and protection.

 

[POLLY1934]

She for Real going working with bperfect...spoke to a rep today...after what like speaking to.councelor so she got X amount followers from the nations child and she using that to do collabs for miney and poor saoirse deceased...seriously her family yee must read here...would someone please put a stop to her...and using poor farah Rose like a little monkey...I've teens here and it goes full circle they flip overnight very fast, another few yrs and farah Rose will not want that camera near her...teen pre teenagers are veryvocal about what their not ok with...it will all backfire...

 

[ChastityDingle]

A child's home should be the safest of safe places, for them.
And their parents should be the fiercest guardians of that safety and privacy. What on earth is she playing at!

 

[work4aliving]

That’s vile ! What a horrible woman ! Let’s be honest she was planning content even while choosing the music for her daughters funeral

Reminds me of everything eileen heading off to a ball when her poor baby was only 6weeks gone because apparently Annabel would have wanted them to live their lives . Ok
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Imagine being arsed to get ready and post Instagram pictures . I don’t get it , she really should be mourning

Good point, back in the day mourning was a year and a day I think , not that mourning is a set process but there is some dignity in that . I'm not sure if it's still the case people don't send or receive Christmas cards after a death but all these old traditions suggest a respect for those who have passed ....this woman's actions are reprehensible but mourn porn is a big part of insta unfortunately...

 

[The Menace]

The latest story about the dates of S&FR being conceived.


That’s too much.

I really can't..... Someone take the phone off her. Not posting private stuff - eh your daughter after she has passed, the hearse and now the dates her girls were conceived

 

[Lucydowl]

Ah Farrah Rose (and maybe Saoirse) being an IVF baby makes the fact that they were both conceived on 17 April and it being their parents anniversary of meeting makes it a lot less weird/creepy than it seemed from her post at the weekend.

The most personal private information being broadcast publicly to strangers. Beyond weird.

 

[Hunzosrus]

FR back with the happy x day messages today, said bye rather than good luck but there's still a bang of "perform for the camera" about it

Followed by a story explaining that she is putting AD on it as she hopes to be working with the brand again in the future. That makes no sense, it's either an ad, or not... That's just a desperate attempt to get the brand to hire her again.

And another story thanking everyone that visited the grave over the weekend. The message she got from that follower shows the type of person that would visit a stranger's child's grave. The message saying the whole country felt her loss, etc. That's only pushing her in the wrong direction, making her feel like she needs to share all of this.

I'm happy to see FR will be starting play therapy soon, but I hope those sessions are kept private.

 

[petal1]

Mama shared every minute of Farrah toilet training a few years back, even went as far as showing what was in the potty it was beyond disgusting carry on. So I don't think she'll stop now. The poor child.

OMG, she didn't Wow, I'm actually shocked that she did that to the poor child. I wasn't watching back then so didn't know.

Showing what's in the potty - who does that?! Dr Niamh is spot on in that story above - you wouldn't film an adult on the toilet and share it so why film a toddler toilet training. That's unforgivable. Poor FR. I'm actually angry hearing this. So this desperate attention seeking isn't just since Saoirse became very unwell so. It's going on years

 

[Talcadidas]

Yeah I’ve absolutely no issue whatsoever with people imagining, believing, seeing, feeling things even if it’s their own mind creating these things for them, if it helps them.

I think there’s an odd obsession with sharing everything that feels uncomfortable. But it might be that she worries that if she stops, everyone will forget her daughter. Additionally so much of her own identity and purpose quickly became about being a sick girl’s mother. That sick girl is no longer here and no longer needs her, so perhaps it’s this unhealthy need to keep her present, and keep her own self in the past that is behind a lot of this.

 

[Lucydowl]

I feel she’s bursting trying to get back on instagram …knows it’s distasteful but still milking it unfortunately. That little girl should have the privacy not given previously

 

[Ellegee]

It’s no accident that the things for last night were gifted. Disgusting that something so special for a recently deceased child has been turned into an AD