I think you are right...tactics...Sandy's usual deviousness coming out....Aileen will get all the blame. When we were friends way back she would ask me to say certain things in front of certain people ie. praise her in front of people that sort of thing...uses people for her own use basically, Aileen will learn the hard way.Maybe the kids are with him in Ballincollig? I hope they are . Aileen and Sandy are definitely in cahoots. Sandy isn’t posting any pictures but Aileen is. If Colm freaks later , Sandy will protest it had nothing to do with her.