I’m very blessed to have travelled a lot and make meaningful friendships with people from other continents along the way. Those friendships have been nurtured through electronic communication & trips back and to (I go to them - they come to me) over a 20 year period. We have grown together and now bring our partners & children along as part of those trips too. There have been occasion where we’ve met without our families - but for the most part, we have grown together in the fullness of life (which includes family). She doesn’t understand anything of the depth these real friendships are. She’s beyond shallow & only puts out a version of herself she thinks will make her acceptable in such circles. And when she’s ‘accepted’ it makes her feel good because she knows she hasn’t had to reveal any of her deep flaws. Her constant blathering about it on social media is testament to everything it is not. We see through you Val. You’re like a window.