i appreciate your concerns about age chat but there is some biology here to take into account - the development of the frontal lobe function of a 30 something year old as opposed to a early 20 something year old are at two very different stages.Please stop this age thing I have friends who are 21 / 23 and I’m in my mid 30’s Sallie is a twit but just stop the age thing
Your frontal lobe function is what helps us cognitively function, being our impulsivity, our ability to plan, control, organise.
So I’m sorry but the age comments have some relevancy. I am sure it’s fun to hang with younger friends, which I do, but to actually surround yourself endlessly with 20 year olds means something is going on there - and it’s pretty clear Val has a not so great frontal lobe function.