Is she done or is she just catching her breath? Is there a pattern starting to emerge? When something specific is mentioned or when Jupiter aligns with Mars?
She's starting to lose money for her sponsors, I see many of us are saying "nope" (tee-hee) to new products. As for treating yourself, as
@Originalnuttah mentioned, this is so engraved in us and we should re-learn to treat ourselves differently. I don't mean to live like a monk and self-flagellate as a treat, don't get me wrong, but when you have so much stuff, it becomes just that - stuff with no other purpose that being a means for a short distraction from whatever is bothering us or a very mild high.