This is not just insensitive ,but totally sickening to any of us who have lost babies..Anna hadn`t gotten as far as the foetus being formed ,hence no actual baby.Now i`ve had 2 miscarriages.One at 12./1/2 weeks ,the other at 4/1/2 months.I can`t compare the two.The first ,they took me straight in ,gave me a D&C and didn`t even know the sex.Second time around ,i`d had so many different scans ,to ascertain exactly how many weeks i was. At the last s can ,where there was a heartbeat i was 4 months and 5 days.I was recalled the next week ,where the heartbeat wasn`t heard ,i had internal and external scans ,which confirmed the baby i was carrying had died ,and started to mortify inside. THis time i was kept in ,told i`d need an emergency D&C because the risk of infection was so high.I was put on a ward ,with new mothers ,and waited 5 hours before being taken to theater. Afterwards i was kept in 24 hours ,still on a post natal ward ,and i felt wretched.I can remember hearing new babies crying ,and just wanted to get home to my other children.I never told them i was expecting a new baby ,i wasnt very big at that stage anyway ,and im glad ,because they never saw the grief both mum ,and dad experienced.Once they were in their teens ,i remember one of them asking ,did i ever want a little boy? Then i told them ,they almost did.Emilia and Eduardo aren`t old enough to comprehend what A&J are telling them! AS for the littler ones ,what DO they expect?. Jonathan ,Anna ,you`ve done lots of things which have disgusted me ,but none as much as useing a pregnancy that never was to be ,for monetary gain ,views and sympathy from young kids watching ,who know no better.You are truly vile...
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To any of you who have experienced this trauma ,my heart goes out to you.xx