I assume Anna wants 'someone like family' because unlike 'regular' cleaners, their cleaners spend so much time in their house, not just a quick 2hrs for the basics every weeks, but probably several days per week and for longer, I mean she's doing their laundry, so the cycles alone would take half a day. Plus unlike other families who employ a cleaner, Anna's constantly home doing nothing while the cleaner's there. Other mums with a cleaner are probably too busy minding the children or are in their (home) office working and don't even notice much of the cleaner, whereas Anna, like a teenager, is probably tired of being confined to her bedroom while the cleaner works because she's bored.
It's really laughable how both, J and A, are constantly looking for paid friends, him with his PA's, she with her BFF cleaning ladies... it's really sad.
And J setting in stone that E2 will from now on wear the girl's uniform is SO controlling, he is slowly taking every option from E2 away, through coercive control and limiting his choices, making sure E2 is only left with one option: becoming little Jonathan. Also: "He is known thought [sic] out the school". Every child's dream to be that kid in their school, the kid everyone knows personal things about while you know nothing about them. It's disgusting that Jonathan has basically recreated YT on the school grounds: everyone knows the SJ children while the SJ children know nothing about the child that just called their name and knows personal things about them they have never told them.