I really think they have a warped meaning of certain things like the 90% gay thing, if you’re not attracted to the same sex, which he claims he isn’t, then you’re not gay. I think he’s associating “being 90% gay” with what people would have traditionally called camp. There’s nothing wrong with being a feminine man but they have such linear views on gender like girls wear pink and sleep in the pink room and the boys with blue that they can’t seem to comprehend that men can be interested in traditionally girly things and woman be interested in traditionally boys things.
This plays into what they’re doing with E2, acting as if dresses, long hair and make up make you more “girly”. I’ve watched them since E2 was born and I always thought he was so interested in princesses and dressing up because of E1 being the big sister and the only influence he had, which is fairly normal and most grow out of it eventually unless of course you’re forced to keep the narrative. If E2 follows a certain path he should be able to do it privately and in his own time without the views of the world. I recently unsubscribed to them across all networks as I don’t agree with the narrative J is trying to create and their content has become repetitive and desperate.