That's it isn't it? I've never met this woman in my life, every single thing I have commented on has been a result of what she's put online. They are happy with that when it's getting them free stuff or money but when it becomes criticism they have a hissy fit about cyber bullying. Well TOUGH tit.
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It was so easy to find stuff out. I remember she got a burglar alarm fitted when she realised how much she’d overshared and seeing as she is always away she’d put herself at risk of being broken into
yes she does but she didn’t pursue it as she didn’t ‘want to commute’. Her words. I tit you not
I agree! I commented on their Instagram feed when she popped up. I doubt they even research who they use for their advertsAnd the rest of us get up at 6am because we have a lust for commuting
If m&s are using unrelatable people like her with such terrible adverts no wonder their non food sales are dire
So RVK is trying to pull a Mrs Meldrum. 
And call what is basically a commentary/discussion thread about what SHE posts harassment and bullying?!
So let me get this straight, she can make a living from posting online
she has full control over what she posts on line and when she posts it?
Welcomes interaction and compliments.
But if she gets any negative reactions to the content she produces she deletes and blocks?
That is Until it’s outside her control and then she REPORTS IT AS ABUSE?!
There are no threats made here,
no bullying or overly aggressive posts (and if there are they’re removed straight away, and that’s only if a troll gets through)
An influencer can’t report something as abuse because they don’t like it.
I can understand it must be frustrating not being able to control the narrative of this site after so long of having that block and delete button handy.
But nobody is forced to read.
Maybe she needs to get someone else to read her tattle thread and weed out the stuff she can handle. Or block the site completely if she’s not open to criticism.
But why conduct your life on line anyway if that’s the case.
Just my opinion. No hate
And call what is basically a commentary/discussion thread about what SHE posts harassment and bullying?!
So let me get this straight, she can make a living from posting online
she has full control over what she posts on line and when she posts it?
Welcomes interaction and compliments.
But if she gets any negative reactions to the content she produces she deletes and blocks?
That is Until it’s outside her control and then she REPORTS IT AS ABUSE?!
There are no threats made here,
no bullying or overly aggressive posts (and if there are they’re removed straight away, and that’s only if a troll gets through)
An influencer can’t report something as abuse because they don’t like it.
I can understand it must be frustrating not being able to control the narrative of this site after so long of having that block and delete button handy.
But nobody is forced to read.
Maybe she needs to get someone else to read her tattle thread and weed out the stuff she can handle. Or block the site completely if she’s not open to criticism.
But why conduct your life on line anyway if that’s the case.
Just my opinion. No hate
So RVK is trying to pull a Mrs Meldrum.
And call what is basically a commentary/discussion thread about what SHE posts harassment and bullying?!
So let me get this straight, she can make a living from posting online
she has full control over what she posts on line and when she posts it?
Welcomes interaction and compliments.
But if she gets any negative reactions to the content she produces she deletes and blocks?
That is Until it’s outside her control and then she REPORTS IT AS ABUSE?!
There are no threats made here,
no bullying or overly aggressive posts (and if there are they’re removed straight away, and that’s only if a troll gets through)
An influencer can’t report something as abuse because they don’t like it.
I can understand it must be frustrating not being able to control the narrative of this site after so long of having that block and delete button handy.
But nobody is forced to read.
Maybe she needs to get someone else to read her tattle thread and weed out the stuff she can handle. Or block the site completely if she’s not open to criticism.
But why conduct your life on line anyway if that’s the case.
Just my opinion. No hate
Apparently she doesn't, hence the complaints!God almighty how does she cope?!
Hadn't seen that blog post before. Perhaps this is where a potential confusion has come from as it does say Ben(?) was teaching in Africa for awhile. Hence why some posters thought he was a teacher when they met. I suppose he still might have been, I don't think that's been confirmed either way?
However that post itself is quite a thing isn't it?
So many thoughts...
What is going on in that photograph? The most awkward, non romantic looking kiss of all time. Hmm..
"But there was this unexplained connection from the start when we were brought together and started talking..."
Who on earth 'brought them together"? Who in their right mind brings together a school girl and a 25 year old man?
"For this reason, to keep everybody happy we decided to wait for about eighteen months to be together properly"
Who tells the world this stuff?
But my main gripe on this post is that it is titled as if its their love story but actually reads as a total humblebrag about their life so far. A love story isn't fairytale if it's basically a chance to bang on about the usual foreign travel (yawn) and your tiresome property empire actually paid for by your parents.
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Justifying hooking up with a 25 year old when you're 15 because you're 'way beyond my years'. I dunno about that! She still seems incredibly immature to me, and everything she does is a humble brag. She's like a child trying to play grownup.
She posted her new house and pretty specific location online just to brag about what they were buying it. Then she regularly advertises when it's empty for weeks on end.
She really needs to mature a lot, take a lot more responsibility for her 'business' practice and find a little class.
How on earth would anyone know how and when she met her husband, how she conceived her baby, where her house is, her awful tweets and what her dad does for a job etc if she wasn't sharing all this information with the internet. Honestly, no one would care. It's that she's been putting this information out there quite carelessly for years and now people have an opinion on it.
She has shared all the information for a quick buck. Maybe she will be more careful infuture.
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But she is in a sticky spot now, I know some influencers quite like the drama of being talked about so that they can mention it and increase traffic to their brand. But RVK can't because it will throw up some interesting and potentially brand damaging stuff to a wider audience. Do we think she will comment elsewhere about our supposed 'trolling'?
Absolutely - she advertised where she lived, what property she was selling and where they were buying. Half a dozen clicks later the world knew her exact old and new address, the value of each property etc. Does she honestly not realise that what she posts is out there forever (whether she deletes the posts or not)? I truly believe that it’s the threat to the RVK brand that has prompted this complaint. We have already seen Von Haus picking up on Beggy Becca’s feed on here. Come on M&S, Cox & Cox, The White Company “READ ALL ABOUT IT”!
It's all about preserving her wholesome image. This thread ranks very high on Google and doesn't fit the narrative she's spent years carefully crating.
I think it’s good that she doesn’t have a ‘proper’ job. I honestly don’t think she could cope. I remember seeing one of her instagram stories where she had a panic attack on the train because it was during rush hour and was so busy. She wouldn’t be able to get to work in the first place. In all jobs you have accountability, and have to comply with rules and regulations. This is something she struggles with, hence the complaints about her to the ASA about not tagging paid partnerships properly. Sometimes as part of a job you are reviewed and critiqued, and the feedback isn’t always nice, but you learn from it and move on. You can’t have a paddy fit and complain it’s unfair and bullying! You just wouldn’t get away with that spoilt attitude working for someone else. So maybe it’s best for her that she does work for herself, I don’t think she would last anywhere else.
She needs to remember that her instagram account is her business and not just to document pretty pictures. You have to have accountability, and if she was doing things properly in the first place this thread may never of even been started!
It also doesn’t matter what way she tries to dress it up, what her husband done was wrong. Starting a relationship with someone who is 15 when you’re 25 is potentially illegal. That is something she can’t get away from and knows it. The reason why they didn’t get to together properly for 18 months wasn’t to appease wider society. It was to stop him going to prison for being involved with a minor! I
She needs to remember that her instagram account is her business and not just to document pretty pictures. You have to have accountability, and if she was doing things properly in the first place this thread may never of even been started!
It also doesn’t matter what way she tries to dress it up, what her husband done was wrong. Starting a relationship with someone who is 15 when you’re 25 is potentially illegal. That is something she can’t get away from and knows it. The reason why they didn’t get to together properly for 18 months wasn’t to appease wider society. It was to stop him going to prison for being involved with a minor! I
Exactly. But I don't believe for a second that, in this modern world, as someone who's entire job is in social media, as some educated enough to get a law degree, that she didn't know.
I think she just valued bragging over privacy.
There is a reason why successful influencers never share the front of their house. Why they share that they've moved long after it's all gone through. They certainly don't share their village name, a picture of their 'for sale' board and a picture of the front of their new house!
I get it, you shouldn't have to worry about things like that. But it's just common sense to maintain some basic privacy just in case. I certainly value my privacy and the safety of my family far too much to share what she has shared and I only have close friends following and my account is private. Who knows who reads what she puts out there!
I've been reading this thread the past few weeks and it's great to find others who think the same as I have! I've been following RVK for a few years, I used to enjoy her interior photos and her gardening tips. I think with new guidelines my eyes have been opened to just how much free #gifted stuff these influencers receive and how money grabbing they can be #ad #paid partnership #affiliate - its relentless! I think every day now she posts a freebie or is pushing something to make money. It's really put me off her.
From the blog post she wrote about her husband being 10 years older she says "it was most definitely an issue for wider society at first and I think on paper if you hear that in essence a teen and a 25 year old are together people tend to judge?" Yes Rebecca that's because in our society it's illegal to have sex with a minor and your husband pursuing you could be looked at as grooming a minor, so yes people will judge! I volunteer working with vulnerable children and families and see this a lot, the fact she is portraying this as a great love story is incredibly worrying!
From the blog post she wrote about her husband being 10 years older she says "it was most definitely an issue for wider society at first and I think on paper if you hear that in essence a teen and a 25 year old are together people tend to judge?" Yes Rebecca that's because in our society it's illegal to have sex with a minor and your husband pursuing you could be looked at as grooming a minor, so yes people will judge! I volunteer working with vulnerable children and families and see this a lot, the fact she is portraying this as a great love story is incredibly worrying!
She hopes she “finds time today” to make her giant nest cake. Her family are helping finish the garden, doesn’t seem like she has much on, so I thought this must be some extravagant cake if she won’t have time to do it! Looked at her recipe - it’s a giant cornflake bun with Betty Crocker ready made frosting! How does she not have time to do that?! This girl does not like in the real world
The part I really took issue with on her story was the sentence "using our in laws.." to help with their gardening. Who words it that way! It makes it sounds like they are her minions. It's plain nasty.
I did think that too!!
Been reading this thread for a few weeks and thought it's about time I came out of the shadows to say how much I've enjoyed it.
You can tell she's never had a real job and wouldn't be able to cope with one day a month of real work. She's got some nerve saying people are cyber stalking by talking about posts she shares. If she's happy meeting someone aged 25 when she's 15 and has never had to date, fair enough but why the need to broadcast it and then delete the post?
I might have laughed so hard when she wasn't sure if she had enough time to make some corn flakes chocolate cakes then sprinkle on mini eggs that a bit of wee came out.
I don't follow her anymore, but one thing I gave her credit for is making me think I'm not missing out by not being able to afford exotic holidays. It all looked so dull that I often thought it wasn't worth the hassle of traveling
You can tell she's never had a real job and wouldn't be able to cope with one day a month of real work. She's got some nerve saying people are cyber stalking by talking about posts she shares. If she's happy meeting someone aged 25 when she's 15 and has never had to date, fair enough but why the need to broadcast it and then delete the post?
I might have laughed so hard when she wasn't sure if she had enough time to make some corn flakes chocolate cakes then sprinkle on mini eggs that a bit of wee came out.
I don't follow her anymore, but one thing I gave her credit for is making me think I'm not missing out by not being able to afford exotic holidays. It all looked so dull that I often thought it wasn't worth the hassle of traveling
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