There are no words. Absolutely shameful. Those poor children have no rest.
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I completely agree. If we have a day trip on the Sat. Sunday is normally spent at home just playing and with no plans.
I’ve never seen her post and say “we just had a quiet weekend at home” even poor Ben looks like he needs a rest.
Yes! I've just come to the same conclusion! I kept doubting myself thinking I was just being mean
Could not have put this better myself. There's nothing wrong with a day or two where you don't leave the house, stay in pj's till gone midday and simply read, play with toys and watch cbeebies.
Also, kids NEED to be bored. Poor Freya has to live to a constant timetable of activities- baking, 'crafting' (I bleeping hate that word) or something else prescribed by Grabby. She needs to go off and play on her own accord, and develop her own imagination. Obviously I don't remember being 3, but I definitely remember as a small child my mum certainly didn't make me do something every minute of every day, I was often left to play with my toys and make up my own games and stories while she kept an eye on me whilst doing other stuff.
You’ve all said what I’m thinking but I still had to say something!! I can’t believe her!! To have a big party when you’re children have been poorly, totally wrong! And to not know how many times your baby has had bronchitis, like it’s nothing! We even know how many times he has had it! I would be embarrassed to post that my baby has had it again for the third time! How is she not aware that posting party and anniversary outings whilst also posting poorly sick children just makes her look like a tit parent!! That photo of her beaming all sunny and happy and those poor kids just sitting in the pram white as sheets! I just can not believe it!
When my kids are sick, even just a little, we have pj days watching moving, duvet on the sofa and lots of cuddles! We also have chilled resting days after a big day out or a birthday party! Children are just like little adults, they will experience burnout just like us! And after a big birthday party I’m normally shattered! Kids need chilled days to catch up with themselves!
I literally could go on and on!
Oh and Ben literally looks like her grandad! He is so old!!!!!!!! How old is he??
When my kids are sick, even just a little, we have pj days watching moving, duvet on the sofa and lots of cuddles! We also have chilled resting days after a big day out or a birthday party! Children are just like little adults, they will experience burnout just like us! And after a big birthday party I’m normally shattered! Kids need chilled days to catch up with themselves!
I literally could go on and on!
Oh and Ben literally looks like her grandad! He is so old!!!!!!!! How old is he??
Is he 40 this year??
Yes he is. Next month. Kept quiet about that hasn’t she? Oh dreamy 40th birthday
The photo of the kids In the buggy is awful. They do look like little grey ghosts.
She is a bleeping disgrace
She is a bleeping disgrace
Everything about this makes me so sad for those children. It’s proven that’s it’s good for children to be bored, it sparks their imagination, encourages creativity. If they have been ill ffs stay home and relax and chill out for once. She’s a complete crazy woman that puts her needs every single time before them.
Come what may, there's no way grabby would've postponed that party. She would've planned this a year in advance... not factoring in the possibility that the kids would maybe under the weather/ill. I also doubt that Freya asked for a craft/mermaid party, kids at that age wouldn't give a flying tit as they don't properly understand about the meaning of birthdays etc. We only dipped our toes into the world of "parties" when my kids hit primary school and oh my god, what an bloody eye opener that was even back then {it wasn't that long ago too}. And this was pre the era of influencers. The expectations must be bloody massive these days especially as there's a lot of {wannabe} influencers/one-upmanship. Grabby doesn't realise by setting the bar high now, that she's really fucked herself over doing an OTT mermaid party for a 3yr old
Wonder what she's got in-store for Raffys 1st in the next few days.OMG at that wedding anniversary post, "celebrating us"
and "planned a kid free date which was gatecrashed/hijacked at the last minute by the kids" {aka mama & papa kedgefunds inconveniently fell ill and couldn't look after the kiddos}.
He looks like he's been celebrating his 40th birthday for quite a few years now.Yes he is. Next month. Kept quiet about that hasn’t she? Oh dreamy 40th birthday
He looks like Jim Carey in the Mask.
Guaranteed… she ordered both these cards. It’s probably the first time Benpecked has seen them.
Those poor children. Raffy especially often looks ill and fed up.
bronchiolitis is no joke either. She’s so confident that he’ll “bounce back”. Shocking parenting.
So many thoughts on recent events at grubby towers...as per what everyone else is saying, cannot believe how old (and unwell) Ben looks, it's actually quite disgusting. cannot believe she went ahead with party (and presumably did all the planning and prep whilst kids were sick, knowing full well she should cancel) and then taking them for that ridiculous lunch while they're still so exhausted and sick. It is mind blowing. Although to give her credit, she's staying true to form. The last Time Waffy was very unwell she hosted a party, days after, no?? And the black and white photo of waffy - the only time she uses black and white photos are for added dramatic effect (remember the weird one of her crying breastfeeding??) Its allll for attention, allllll for the gram, allll because she is a complete lunatic who cannot change her plans or put her kids first. In 4 years of having kids, I've had to cancel so many things I've wanted to do because I've had sick kids...she just ploughs on. What a fool.
Oh dreamy contagious respiratory infections for the grandKedgersCome what may, there's no way grabby would've postponed that party. She would've planned this a year in advance... not factoring in the possibility that the kids would maybe under the weather/ill. I also doubt that Freya asked for a craft/mermaid party, kids at that age wouldn't give a flying tit as they don't properly understand about the meaning of birthdays etc. We only dipped our toes into the world of "parties" when my kids hit primary school and oh my god, what an bloody eye opener that was even back then {it wasn't that long ago too}. And this was pre the era of influencers. The expectations must be bloody massive these days especially as there's a lot of {wannabe} influencers/one-upmanship. Grabby doesn't realise by setting the bar high now, that she's really fucked herself over doing an OTT mermaid party for a 3yr old
OMG at that wedding anniversary post, "celebrating us"
Muma and Papa Kedgefund have just returned from a holiday with friends in Majorca so I think it’s more likely someone from Ben’s side who cried off babysitting, I suspect that’s why she’s mentioned it!
Black and white post of ill child no sleep for 4 nights kids are so unwell, followed by dreamy birthday insta content, then another black and white photo of baby crying so ill, sandwiched in with another dreamy celebrations for anniversary. Mind blowing! Poor Raffy with bronchiolitis will be stuck in front of a balloon arch in a couple of days. Most parents would cancel and concentrate on getting their little one better. It's not like he'll even remember it? Epitome of selfish! Just for her and the gram
I still can’t get over it. The photos of those poor grey children…
When my eldest was 4 weeks old, we went to a birthday party - didn’t know until we arrived that the 2 year old who’s party it was has ‘a bit of a cough and cold but we didn’t want to cancel.’ Well, a week later we were in hospital for 2 days with my then 5 week old on oxygen with bronchiolitis. It really isn’t a joke. If it ever happened again, I’d turn around and walk straight back out now knowing how serious it is. I hope someone at Grabby’s, sorry I mean Freya’s, party has the guts to do so.
When my eldest was 4 weeks old, we went to a birthday party - didn’t know until we arrived that the 2 year old who’s party it was has ‘a bit of a cough and cold but we didn’t want to cancel.’ Well, a week later we were in hospital for 2 days with my then 5 week old on oxygen with bronchiolitis. It really isn’t a joke. If it ever happened again, I’d turn around and walk straight back out now knowing how serious it is. I hope someone at Grabby’s, sorry I mean Freya’s
, party has the guts to do so.
I’m guessing the reason they wouldn’t cancel anything was purely based on money. They already bought all the dreamy Costco food, they’d already booked the entertainer, they’d already ordered the cake. Then you can absolutely guarantee they didn’t pay for that anniversary lunch. That would’ve been a gift from Mama and Papa Kedge, maybe a leftover Christmas voucher that needed redeeming. No way in hell would they have paid for it. We all know how tight Grabby is, and dusty old Benpecked certainly isn’t earning ten times anymore, lady.
Probably because they were poorly
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