Maybe I should laugh this off, but it's bothering me for lots of reasons. Rant below.
Everyone's allowed to have their preferences, but what I can't stand in this post is the implication that ''real sex'' = whatever aggressive porn clips he's been watching lately. Who is he to judge what is or isn't proper sex? To say you don't
believe in loving, gentle sex is such an odd way to make a point. It's one thing to say 'I don't like this' - instead he's talking as if he's Richard Dawkins discussing the existence of God. There's also such misogyny (there it is again!) in the disdain for Mills & Boon type romance, which is typically seen as a very female-oriented thing and not taken seriously by anyone. Besides, the 'gently kiss my way down your body' stuff isn't exclusive to Mills & Boon. It's actually really sexy in a less-is-more way (not when it involves Russ ofc). But hey, apparently we're not allowed to find affectionate behaviour attractive or else we'll be seen as lesser beings who are beneath his rational manly intellect.
*I don't think Russ would know anything about the 'less is more' thing because he seems to have a few issues with desensitisation and, umm, the 'death grip' as it's commonly known.