I’d like to think so too, but I also think she figures as long as it’s getting her views and making her money, who gives a crap.Since it is obvious that she reads here, surely she is mortified that the majority of posts on here are calling out her triggering thinspo posts for what they are. If she is deliberating showing performative ED habits because she wants attention and wants people to be concerned for her, then reading here suuuuuurely must make her feel embarassed? I know I'd feel SO embarrassed that people could see through my attention seeking ways.
i should hope she’s mortified. if she wanted someone to notice what she’s up to, we’ve noticed. i want her to get help for her eating issues before they get any worse and she’s trapped by them. take this as a sign!Since it is obvious that she reads here, surely she is mortified that the majority of posts on here are calling out her triggering thinspo posts for what they are. If she is deliberating showing performative ED habits because she wants attention and wants people to be concerned for her, then reading here suuuuuurely must make her feel embarassed? I know I'd feel SO embarrassed that people could see through my attention seeking ways.
I also hope that her parents step in and that she gets therapy. I can’t help but feel that some of this stems from her not wanting to grow up, and being ‘unwell’ is a good way to carry on being looked after at home and avoid some of the expectations that come along with graduating from uni. It does seem odd to me that she’s so blatantly advertising some of these behaviours but I guess there is that whole part of the internet that glamorises and celebrates disordered eating and associates it with productivity and success. It’s incredibly unhealthy though - it worries me too that there seems to be a bit of a love-in between Ruby and Holly at the moment. Holly is absolutely not a positive influence, despite her academic success, and Ruby really needs to realise that.Fingers crossed her parents do step in if she needs help, but she's an adult now so theres a chance they wont and she may not accept the help anyway. After a bit of thinking from when I last spoke about this (maybe earlier this thread or the previous one, I forget how long ago) I think it's more of an attention thing and possibly even attempting to look like a child tbh. Regardless of what it is as the above poster has said she will hopefully talk about this with her therapist
That's fucking vileher sink in her latest video...
Wtf is wrong with her? For someone so obsessed with being ‘aesthetic’ I don’t understand why she constantly films with literal filth in the background of all her videosher sink in her latest video...
what gets me more is the fact that that is her family home... her mum and dad’s house ... as in 2 very experienced adults, and that’s the state of their sink. I’d obviously be just as grossed out if it was Ruby’s own home where she lives by herself, but it’s more shocking that it’s a home where 2 mature adults live... you’d expect older adults who own a house and have children to be a bit cleaner than that! I understand that not everyone has the time to clean their house and make it spotless at all times but come on.. especially if you’re going to have it in the background of a video!Wtf is wrong with her? For someone so obsessed with being ‘aesthetic’ I don’t understand why she constantly films with literal filth in the background of all her videos
Exactly lmao, I’m at uni 10am-8pm all week and my boyfriend is working all day as well, and we still manage to keep our home cleaner than that. I understand if the dad is out all day working, but I just don’t get what the mum does all day if she doesn’t have a job and why tf Ruby doesn’t help out with cleaning either? So oddwhat gets me more is the fact that that is her family home... her mum and dad’s house ... as in 2 very experienced adults, and that’s the state of their sink. I’d obviously be just as grossed out if it was Ruby’s own home where she lives by herself, but it’s more shocking that it’s a home where 2 mature adults live... you’d expect older adults who own a house and have children to be a bit cleaner than that! I understand that not everyone has the time to clean their house and make it spotless at all times but come on.. especially if you’re going to have it in the background of a video!
didn't she also say that writing in paper is better for her learning yet she's always on her laptop?Ruby: titles video 'paper not laptop for once'
Also Ruby: spends at least half the video on her laptop
It does seem like a lot, doesn't it? The evidence looking into green tea (that I've read about at least) says it doesn't have any significant effect on appetite or weight loss (though can have health benefits), so I'm not really worried about whether drinking it a lot would hurt her physically. But there is that common belief that it helps with weight loss so if she thinks that and that's why she's drinking it that is worrying, like you said!! I hope she continues with therapy too if she needs itsomewhat OT but has anyone else caught onto how often Ruby drinks green tea? and that green tea can suppress your appetite/help you lose weight? I'm worried about her. as other people here have said, I really hope she continues to go to therapy when possible :/
(sorry if this has already been mentioned!)
I would be really concerned if one of my brownies had seen the Harley Quin movie- pretty violentYeah, I'm a brownie leader and on our last Zoom meeting one of our kids said they were dressing up as Harley Quinn- I suppose that that's technically a book since it's a comic book but likely she's just seen the film and thought it was cool
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