I wouldn't say she fits the bobo category tho. She's certainly pretentious enough, but not hiptser enough.
Ça fait du sens? J'ai la chansons de Renaud prise dans la tête maintenant.
Ok so I had to google patronising, and I was definitely not being patronising. Not trying to be helpful, not doing it in a superior kind of way. Just really tired. You know, this kind of thinking really hurt people with eating disorders. Clearly this school put the roots of Ruby's issues with food in her head, it's really messed up to weight your student or control their food. Especially kids growing, omg. And to say "but she looked healthier at the time" or whatever, or talking about the way she used to eat... So many kids never get better, because as soon as they start eating and gaining weight again, everybody think they are healed.
"Looking healthy" doesn't mean much, for most people it means you don't look like a bunch of bones and you are not overweight. But unless you are a medical professional, you can't asses health (especially mental health, eating disorders are 100% mental, so there can be 0 external signs sometimes) to the way someone looks.
The food you eat doesn't mean anything either, idk, I watch Ruby's old videos and I find she has a very weird relationship with exercise, even 2-3 years ago.