Maybe I need to do the same! That’s a great response. It’s awful, if I ever say no to seeing her (which is quite frequent to be fair) I get guilt tripped into no tomorrow, doesn’t matter if I’m sick, busy, got an appointment. I’m the world’s worst daughter for not being able to see herI have started responding with ‘well he should have been a better parent then’ if anyone dares to judgesoon shuts them up. Bless you that sounds so shit some people just aren’t fit to be parents and kids are not obliged to put up with it when they become adults - it isn’t a given Beggy you have to actually be a nice person to be around not a whinging, screaming, self obsessed wreck