I don’t think children need to be at a baby shower, how utterly boring for them. However I bet if Beggy had daughters instead of sons they would be dressed in pink and brought along!
As for Beggy not sitting near Steve’s family …. well let’s not forgot he did not want a third child, Beggy said herself how difficult things were at the beginning, I’m sure his Mum knows every detail of her sons upset, so now to be sitting celebrating
Beggy’s much wanted daughter I imagine tensions might still be there so cue Beggy sitting them as far away as possible!
If Beggy organised her own shower
she must have told them to wear pink, who does that
! Also, why white for her then … Virgin Mary she is not!