Sending you lots of love, traumatic births are exactly that, traumatic. No amount of positive thinking can change you're outcome but her bleating on about how hers will be perfect and she's just staying positive about it is bleeping mental. I feel for any first time mother's watching this tit show and thinking that's how it'll go.I had my first baby 10 months ago and I genuinely couldn’t bring myself to get excited through my entire pregnancy because I was so scared of something going wrong, I’m a worrier anyway but every time I was excited I kept thinking that’s it now something is going to go wrong!! Obviously I couldn’t wait for him to arrive and I was beyond happy but I just couldn’t feel that excitement.. shame beggy wasn’t pregnant a year earlier and I could of took her advice and thought happeh thoughts and I’d of been alright. Or I should have thought positiveh thoughts whilst in labour for 3 days, ended up in emergency forceps(nearly c section as his heart rate kept dipping because the cord was wrapped round his tummy), a second degree tear and an episiotomy
oh and then my milk didn’t come in.. gutted I didn’t have midwife Beggy for help
I've had two traumatic deliveries that essentially fucked my mental health at the time, I then had a C-section (which I felt is always seen as a failure or the easy way out) and I have been a completely different mother this time round. I feel sorry for who I was after the first two and seeing her spout tit about how I just needed to think more positively makes me so angry! I'll be a failure again when I have no. 4 too (that's 4 kids my partner wanted, I didn't have to trick him into it)!