Becky doesn't always get what she wants and end up happy.... look at the house she lives in. She's absolutely miserable. I reckon she hates living there and worries everyday how skint they are. She wishes she was like all the other influencers she watches
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babies are only babies for 2 years. Peak Instagram content is pregnancy until about 18 months. She's already failing miserably at it and she's 16 weeks. When she realises this baby won't fix her relationship or her popularity, it will just be another mouth to feed and take to nursery/ school/ look after. As others have mentioned previously, the boys seem quite tame and she seems to have a lot of time to herself. All this will be gone now. I have a feeling the baby won't sleep, she struggled when woody got them up at 6am the other month..... they're both in for a shock. 2 kids to 3 is a bigger jump that she's anticipated. Her whole life is about the change massively and considering the world Is very uncertain at the moment, cost of living crisis and the fact she lives in middle of no where and doesn't have a great support network, she's ruined her life. The only people I feel for are those kids. It's heartbreaking. She won't cope, I just know it. She always needs her phone in her hand. Steve is not also likely to be angry but absolutely terrified about what this means for that family. Shes unhinged and I reckon this might exacerbate her mental health issues to be honest
I totally agree, it doesn't matter if its a boy or girl, it's still going to be a crying, demanding baby, clinging to her breast for hours each day. She loves her sleep, so night feeds are going to be hard, especially if her partner is still not 100% supportive of this pregnancy/baby.
Also the fact that she will not get any Child benefit or government payouts for a 3rd child may cause them some financial issues.
She can say she is a big boss babe, but the cost of living and rates are all going up.
I don't want to see her struggling, or the baby causing her PND, no one deserves that.
I just hope she is happy and content with whatever the baby is.
I also hope this strengthens her relationship with Steve quickly or they make the split before baby arrives.
It's no life for any of them to be living in a house full of hate, betrayal, untrusted.
I don't want to sound as am defending her actions, I just feel a little sorry for all the kids involved.
Instagram has created this "oh so wonderful lifestyle" but can you honestly imagine having to constantly post snippets of your day? Having to lie to make your mundane life look exciting!
I wish they would just show us the real stuff, "house a tip cause I can't be arsed", "kids having nuggets again this week cause I am feed up listening to them moan".
Just be honest, be real and maybe people wouldn't be too hard on them!
Anyway, I've rambled enough
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