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My mum and I get on well but in no shape would I call her my bestfriend..
Personally being best friends like she's making out with your daughter is blurring the lines, she is the mum, there to parent and teach her right and wrong. I will always remember my friend from school who at the time we all thought her mum was so cool because she'd let her daughter out late and even drink with her even though she was underage. Looking back, they may have seemed to have the best friend with your mum kinda relationship, but all she was doing was letting her run wild, have no boundaries etc.
My mum had a boy and my sister and I, she said me and my sister were a bloody nightmare compared to my brother. Me and me sister also have very different personalities!
Personally being best friends like she's making out with your daughter is blurring the lines, she is the mum, there to parent and teach her right and wrong. I will always remember my friend from school who at the time we all thought her mum was so cool because she'd let her daughter out late and even drink with her even though she was underage. Looking back, they may have seemed to have the best friend with your mum kinda relationship, but all she was doing was letting her run wild, have no boundaries etc.
My mum had a boy and my sister and I, she said me and my sister were a bloody nightmare compared to my brother. Me and me sister also have very different personalities!
So I have the opposite to her, 2 girls and I’ve just had my first boy 2 months ago. I obviously don’t have much boy mum experience but my girls are HARD. The First 2 years, Cute little chats, lovely clothes, unicorn obsession / my youngest loves dinosaurs, just really sweet, now all they want is crop tops and to tell me I have a fat bum and that I should put make up on. And the constant mummy you need to look like your wedding day again, why don’t you look like that anymore, Not to mention how much they bicker about their friends I am dreading the teenage years! Good luck Rebecca- your gonna need it, also my girls always try to get me in trouble with their dad 
daddies girls are the worst, I can confirm this as I am one and I’m definitely not my mums best friend actually quite far from it 
daddies girls are the worst, I can confirm this as I am one and I’m definitely not my mums best friend actually quite far from it 
My girl is 4 and I want to freeze her at this age, before all the fuckery starts 
Some of your opinions of "he's just one of those guys who doesn't show emotion on camera" sounds like its without "any substance" no offence, unless you know something we dont? He was more than happy to be pictured to thousands on instagram lifting dingle up with her legs wrapped round his waist, waxing her fanny on camera and swapping spit on a regular in front of the kids not even 2 years ago but all of a sudden just not that guy. Ok.
As we’ve said from the beginning this is going to be one long ass pregnancy
Thank you so muchLots of ASD mums on here doing a bloody grand job of doing what’s best for their kids…and still showing concern for others who are blind or shamed about additional needs. Good luck with your diagnosis @Cooper123 not always easy but hopefully you’ll get there
I have no words really… buying those little girl clothes the day after the reveal it’s bordering on manically obsessive. I bet she’s hardly spent any time with her boys who just looked shell shocked and confused.
All she’s done is shop for her babeh gurl, and prance around rubbing her belly in front of the magic mirror.
Her behaviour thus far is deeply disturbing.
I am very worried what effects this is going to have on her other children - one who is definitely on the spectrum, and the other emotionally insecure and unsocialised
All she’s done is shop for her babeh gurl, and prance around rubbing her belly in front of the magic mirror.
Her behaviour thus far is deeply disturbing.
I am very worried what effects this is going to have on her other children - one who is definitely on the spectrum, and the other emotionally insecure and unsocialised
I have 3 girls and are they are all very different, my middle is full on won’t wear a skirt/dress/anything with pink or girlie colours, wears her hair in one style only then youngest is very girly and my eldest is a mixture of both. Beggy is showing how narrow minded she is just assuming her girl will be a girly girl into frills and all things pink, my girls all like their own style and like to tell me what they are wearing and what hair style they are having she’s in for a rude awakening! Girls are bossy, sassy, headstrong little madams! Unless the girl ends up half soaked like the boys.
then youngest is very girly and my eldest is a mixture of both. Beggy is showing how narrow minded she is just assuming her girl will be a girly girl into frills and all things pink, my girls all like their own style and like to tell me what they are wearing and what hair style they are having she’s in for a rude awakening! Girls are bossy, sassy, headstrong little madams! Unless the girl ends up half soaked like the boys.She’s fuckin manic
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Thank you so much! I find myself thinking the same, looking into the future wondering what his life will be like, but honestly as long as we love them and support them they will thrive and be who they're meant to be. Sounds like your little boy has amazing support. It makes all the difference when the school is onside.Good luckI hope it all goes well for you both, it’s such a long and tiring process. We’ve been really fortunate in that paediatric team, the Speech and language therapsit, health visitor, occupational therapist & educational psychologist have been amazing and so supportive. And the pre-school have been utterly incredible & they support us as parents so much. His special educational needs co-ordinators have children with autism themselves & have just really connected with him. Honestly my only advice is take all the help you can get and don’t feel afraid to speak out. My son is non-verbal and we’re his voice, it can be so hard & there are days where I feel guilty that his life is how it is, that he’ll be able to live normally but I know these feelings are normal and I think most parents with children who have difficulties experience it at some point - just remember you’re doing the best you can for your little one & make sure to take care of yourself too
She looks dementedSorry, but can somebody please explain to me how leggings are adorable??
That outfit for the reveal is what I’d clean in or chill in… not even gonna talk about the trainers she had on
And this peasant outfit..???? She’s got zero style, she looks like actual tit
Oh she most definitely is…. It’s frightening actually. I just wanna be here when the tit hits the fan big time when that baby arrives…. She won’t know what’s hit her with 3 to look after ( I use the term look after loosely because A&W will be looking after themselves by then)
Didn’t she say on an Instagram q&a how she doesn’t like gender reveals? Yet did one herself…
Girls are savage!!So I have the opposite to her, 2 girls and I’ve just had my first boy 2 months ago. I obviously don’t have much boy mum experience but my girls are HARD. The First 2 years, Cute little chats, lovely clothes, unicorn obsession / my youngest loves dinosaurs, just really sweet, now all they want is crop tops and to tell me I have a fat bum and that I should put make up on. And the constant mummy you need to look like your wedding day again, why don’t you look like that anymore, Not to mention how much they bicker about their friends I am dreading the teenage years! Good luck Rebecca- your gonna need it, also my girls always try to get me in trouble with their dad
One thing to take comfort from: once kids hit adulthood, and even adolescence sometimes, they start to realise their own parents' limitations. This has happened to me - my parents did their best raising 3 kids in difficult circumstances but ultimately their best wasn't that great, and there were a lot of areas where they failed me and my siblings in childhood. We were loved but we weren't nurtured. It took me a while to realise this, and it was difficult to accept that my parents just weren't very good at parenting.
Alfie, Woody and Clemmeh/Delilah/Roma WILL have these epiphanies one day - they will realise Beggy never had their best interests at heart, they will be able to look at her through adult eyes and see what her failings were.
Alfie, Woody and Clemmeh/Delilah/Roma WILL have these epiphanies one day - they will realise Beggy never had their best interests at heart, they will be able to look at her through adult eyes and see what her failings were.
girls are harrrrrd my eldest is 13 she is something elseSo I have the opposite to her, 2 girls and I’ve just had my first boy 2 months ago. I obviously don’t have much boy mum experience but my girls are HARD. The First 2 years, Cute little chats, lovely clothes, unicorn obsession / my youngest loves dinosaurs, just really sweet, now all they want is crop tops and to tell me I have a fat bum and that I should put make up on. And the constant mummy you need to look like your wedding day again, why don’t you look like that anymore, Not to mention how much they bicker about their friends I am dreading the teenage years! Good luck Rebecca- your gonna need it, also my girls always try to get me in trouble with their dad
she’s brutal . My 6 yo she’s a little sweetheart but she’s defiantly picking up things from her big sister she is also the biggest daddy’s girl. My third baby girl will be here soon I’m so excited for her arrival. We actually really hoped our final baby would be a girl. I don’t know any different to girls and my husbands an only child so he doesn’t either really.
Sorry but this made me piss myself, I can just imagine itSo I have the opposite to her, 2 girls and I’ve just had my first boy 2 months ago. I obviously don’t have much boy mum experience but my girls are HARD. The First 2 years, Cute little chats, lovely clothes, unicorn obsession / my youngest loves dinosaurs, just really sweet, now all they want is crop tops and to tell me I have a fat bum and that I should put make up on. And the constant mummy you need to look like your wedding day again, why don’t you look like that anymore, Not to mention how much they bicker about their friends I am dreading the teenage years! Good luck Rebecca- your gonna need it, also my girls always try to get me in trouble with their dad
cheeky little sods hahahaa kids are savage 
Yeah she did
what she meant was “I don’t like gender reveals if I’m having another boy”
Quite funny you say nothing better than lovely clean sleep suit- all my 3 boys basically lived in sleep suits their first few months! Rarely did I put them in a special outfit … they need comfort not to look good
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