My husband died a few weeks after Daniel, and the amount of grief porn is unbelievable. There's no way I would go around when it suits the occasion to wear a chain with his photo. I'd be mortified if I carried on the way she does. You lose all confidence in yourself; a massive piece of your life goes when your husband/wife dies, but unfortunately, life goes on.
If I never need help with something around the house or garden, I would either do it myself or pay someone (cause let's be honest she would have gotten a pay out from his life insurance and a death is service from Irish Water so she has plenty of money) to do it for me as there's no way I'm taking one of my many, many friends and family away from their families to do something so small as cutting the grass for me when they've their own to do. But hey, that's just me!