I know what you mean. If my son is poorly and he's at his Dad's, he will ask for me and no matter what I'm doing, I will then be home for him!My partner is a brilliant and capable dad. But when my little boy is off it - even if it’s just teething - I want to be the one looking after him. It’s a mum thing. I love my time to myself but I hate the thought of him being comforted by someone else when he is poorly. She’s not very maternal maybe?