PTWM #51 the patchwork family is a sham, still funding their lifestyle with a PayPal scam

[ShaWei]

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PTWM: battered and hungry I’ll defend for a fee, as long as the stories are all about meeeeeee

 

[FridaK]

Oh no you can't dangle the carrott like that

Oh fuck it, I’m probably wrong but what does it matter. This is a gossip site. So you all know for a while I’ve had a niggle about Josh’s job. When she said a few months ago about the ‘drama’ that his sisters picked her ‘off the floor’ over, she didn’t mention him. Not once. But she did say ‘it’s out of my hands, I can’t talk about it and it’s not me, it’s someone else.’ Anyway, it stuck with me. There were a few other things as well that gave me pause for thought.
Then earlier this week I had an feeling that on Monday they’d been somewhere formal. Then on Wednesday they’d left Wibble with Astrid and gone back later for lunch. Then she also kept putting ‘earlier today etc.’ Which seemed odd. So I checked and there was a misconduct hearing this week and the details weren’t out of the realms of possibility by my estimation, but the name of the officer was just cited as PC J. Now I’m waiting to see the outcome and if the officer is named It could very well be nothing, but it could also be something. If it u it something it does explain her behaviour lately

 

[Noseycow2020]

The problem is, her “story” is:

• Abused by first husband, had two children with him and took years to flee;
• Met Edie’s dad and had a baby with him but accidentally broke his heart because...
• Met Josh when he was definitely already separated and she was definitely not still pregnant with Edie;
• Fell deeply in love and it’s the best relationship ever, Josh is the best husband, father, stepfather, provider etc etc.

It’s basically selling a lie to all the vulnerable people out there who are trapped in abusive relationships or who have escaped but now don’t trust men and are desperate for their happy ever after. She’s painted this picture that I used to believe too. That even victims of domestic abuse can one day find their prince, regardless of how damaged they are by past experiences, no matter their flaws, and who cares how many children they have from various different marriages, it all just works out nicely in the end.

The reality is very different. She was in a mutually abusive relationship, she once planned to kill her first husband, she finally left and used Edie’s dad because he had money and it was a decent step up from being a single mum, she stalked Josh for years, for as long as she’d known his sister, and called his mum Mummy, telling her she would marry her son one day. She made her move when she knew that Josh was at his most vulnerable and she didn’t think about anyone but herself. Not tiny baby Edie, not her dad, not any of the other four children involved. She moved Josh AND his sons in with her before Edie was 6 months old and slowly but surely chipped away at his confidence until she had him where she wanted. She now makes a living stealing from strangers and selling their children on Instagram, Josh seems to have lost the career he loved and drinks too much to compensate. None of the kids have any respect for him or indeed any boundaries whatsoever.

So yeah, keep selling your fairytale story, Rach, we need more people like you

It is more than ok to go from having nothing, living in a refuge to then having absolutely everything and living a better life. I for one, champion anyone who gets to turn their life around like that. However, I don’t champion it when the person doing it will do the following:

*Take PayPal donations and never answer the question to where the money has been spent but instead, show us all the luxuries she has brought even knowing she is under suspicion.

*Act as a DV expert and ambassador then write in her book that she was guilty of DV towards him too and in front of the children, then spend every day playing the victim and playing it well enough to gain a platform on social media that she later abuses.

*Patronise anyone who comes to her to seek help with a “that’s shit hun” but offer a swipe up a £1 fluffy cloud.

*Forget that her target audience and USP are normal women who have likely experience DV or potentially still do yet continuously post links or photos that have no prior trigger warning. Then straight after, try to sell a product.

*Declare on social media that if a refuge isn’t nice, chances are, you’ll go back to your home because it’s full of nice things and creature comforts - including your violent partner. Likely putting women close to being brave enough to flee off ever leaving because they will worry about making it feel like home for the children they take with them. Becuase Rachel said so.

*Constantly talks about being an abandoned child and belittles her Mum for it on social media as often as she can even when repairing that relationship yet we do not know the reasons her Mum left, affair? DV? Mental Health? None of us know but are all expected to Wade in and judge her at every given chance.

*Talks about child poverty and food waste yet shows us their fancy meals daily, their constant dining out, the food they throw away and shows us all how she can afford to shop in M&S yet will only do a paid advert for another store and pretend to be a loyal customer and only shop where she’s paid. Never tells us if she pops a few tins in the store food bank drop offs though does she?

*Knowing what women in refuges need, NEVER actually sends anything of real use or value out to them. Only £5 vegan deodorants and cotton clouds, not to mention the rescue remedy that will no doubt fix the fear these women will leave with daily.

*Over exposes her children, step children, family children and friends children without care or consideration, if she can cash in on them, she will. Will expose them in all manner of situations, half naked, asleep, when in danger, when upset, when bullied or even send random strangers court documents exposing her children’s most initiate thoughts and harrowing experiences.

*Will set upon anyone who dares to argue against her and will even get her huns to join in too.

*Break every rule possible during a pandemic but happily clapped every Thursday to say thank you to the NHS.

*Break every safeguarding rule possible.

*Claim to support refuges and be an ambassador yet bully her own husband publicly and speak to him in a verbally abusing manner every day whilst recording it for 200k to see and find entertaining.

*Repeatedly share links to important issues when she can be bothered but doesn’t do her research or talk about these issues with the same passion in which she talks about a lonely naked bean.

*Encourage complete strangers to approach her children in public and then post it on social media.

The list goes on, and on

Rachel and Joyce celebrated their anniversary by staying in an expensive hotel for the night where they had a posh meal and Rachel got pissed on pornstar martinis she doesn’t drink though they then had a bath together and she shared the most horrific vomit inducing picture of said bath time and left us all scarred for life. Joyce bought her a £400 leather jacket in the sale.
She thinks the children who are starving and get FSM parents should take them to m&s cafe and spend their last £4 on an adult meal to get a free child meal, because that’s the sort of thing she would have done as a treat for her kids when she was earning £25k living in a needle infested bedsit skint.
Oh and where is the PayPal money gone?

 

[Behelzabobs]

I don’t see what’s wrong with doing your hair and make up to go and volunteer. It’s not like she was on a farm outside all day??

There is def nothing wrong with doing your hair and slapping some make up on
But for some of us it just grinds our wheels
See I may be wrong but to me there are two types of volunteers
Below is Jon Bon Jovi multi millionaire washing pots
Then we have someone pointing at stuff in a shop whilst getting her daughter to help out

One is serving the community
One is self serving

 

[Skirmish1979]

 

[Viewingfromafar]

“I’ve got kids coming out of my arsehole”

If that’s the case, your doing it wrong love

 

[ShaWei]

I was watching the walk today with Wiblert (typo but I like it so not changing) and although he was suggesting off camera last week that he would like a younger sister, today he only managed to say “ba ba ba na bla”

 

[GiggleBee]

Youll never guess what? I was in Boots today getting a cranberry and bree sandwhich and a bottle of Ribena when the lady at the till told me it works out cheaper with a snack! So even though there was a queue I went and got one and unlike Rachelle I actually made a tit of myself my knocking over a stand of lipsticks thought I was skinny than I am and tried to squeeze through obviously I was horrified and it was horrific but I had to come on and tell all you huns

 

[FridaK]

Everything is shared - apart from the PayPal money !

Imagine it
‘So how’s it going with Tattle Rach?’

‘Well everyone thinks I’m a tramp who took my followers money and spent it on shite. One third of then think Josh is being domestically abused, one third think he’s a sexual predator and the other third think he’s gay. They think we exploit the children for money, exploit vulnerable people for money and that we would advertise Novichok for the right price. But other than that. IM HAPPY and KIND BYEEEE. Not going to talk about it...... Inbox me hun, love you #womensupportingwomen women’

 

[Dinnerbag]

If Rachel really was in foster care she will of got FSM. Because that’s what happens. And now a days most school use a biometric system so other kids don’t know who is on FSM or not. I know as it says it on the system when I serve them but the other kids can’t see it. I live in the heart of the school community in a very deprived council estate. I know which kids aren’t gonna get a hot decent meal when they get home so I tend to bung them a bit of a larger portion, or let them off if they go over their allocated £2.50 a day. I also make sure that they spend all their allocated money, as some will just buy a cake and have £1.70 left and I’m like “get a sandwich then, just get something”
But the issue is right what Rachel is saying, those that are struggling now because of Covid aren’t entitled to help. My oh had 16 weeks off in total, just my wage, bills were the same, food costs soared....now we are in the shit trying to pay back credit cards we used to eat. It’s shit. But that’s life

 

[tippingpoint]

I’m pissing myself at the stupid mat thing because the idiot clearly sold her soul to the devil for a bit of cash how long has she been promoting it?! Over a year surely because she was infamously pregnant and flogging it when pregnant women can’t even use it now Wibble is like 14 months or something?! I can’t remember. Anyway Rach. Did you have one gin and agree to this contract. Every month or maybe twice a month you’re obliged to promote that shite and it’s too funny. She’s gonna end up like someone trying to pad out an essay to up the word count soon. There’s nothing more you can say on it!

“So. This mat is very matty. Very mat like. You lie on it. Another word for lie is I suppose...lay? So you can lay on it. And lie. Lie and lay”

 

[doingtherightthing]

Here’s a thing Rachel, if you can’t go out as family right for meals, then don’t. Don’t pick two kids to stay at home all because fancy dining is so important to you. Get a takeaway, cook something wholesome, do whatever you need to make it feel like a special meal at home but to pick two to stay at home? No. To expect Betsy to stay home and miss out because she’s the babysitter? No. She’s YOUR DAUGHTER.
Alternatively, why don’t YOU stay at home and miss out instead?
You can even book two tables.
There is a pandemic going on, right now, it doesn’t require you to dine out 3 times a week.

Given that we are all doing our bit to help with the current child food poverty crisis, it’s utterly absurd to be even bragging that she can even afford to take 6 people out for a meal a few times a week.

 

[Skirmish1979]

But did you have an advantage antvinty card though?

And did you eat said meal deal or wait for your husband to chew it and regurgitate it for you?

 

[Monkeybum]

I can't believe she signed off after fake crying about starving kids with 'I'm going off for a tea and some cake' . Unbelievable

 

[Wotsit]

So there's a pandemic crucifying the world, kids are going hungry because they cant get their free school meals during the holidays, DA numbers are at their highest thanks to local lockdowns, businesses are folding every day, people are loosing their jobs and cant afford to pay their bills or put food on the table, cancer sufferers are having vital treatment delayed, people aren't allowed to see their families, millions are off work sick and hundreds of people are dying everyday.......BUT in Rachael's world, there's a dead cricket on a wooden board so Joyce cant eat his eggs off it and she's giving it all the fuck my life shit.

Get a grip you complete waste of space!

 

[FridaK]

I was just thinking, when I posted this yesterday, I fully expected everyone to say ‘stop being a crank.’ Like I know 100% that if anyone suggested this to people about my Husband, even people that only know through my social media, there would be a collective ‘fuck off he did not do that,’ because you just know he wouldn’t if you get me.
This isn’t a busy thread and she isn’t that well known, but there is 42 likes on my comment. So out of a handful of us, 42 think it’s possible that J could’ve done this. Even if it’s not him and if she does read here, I’d be giving that a lot of thought if I was her. I would really be wondering why that is
ETA: I mean in the sense that we only view what she puts out, so she might wanna think about her content etc

 

[MrsOgre]

Brace yourselves ladies, here's the sexist man in Devon

 

[Tigger1]

Play shops? Please tell me she didn’t actually say that about a food bank? In the middle of a pandemic? When people are losing their jobs and kids are going hungry? She is playing shops....... I actually can’t deal.

 

[tippingpoint]

“Play shops” she’s really...she’s really fucking awful

 

[strugglingmother2020]

Pretty sure I projectile vommed this into a handbag in the back of a taxi on in Newcastle on a hen weekend after 13367 shots of tequila