PTWM #42 FTUMWSPM (full time unemployed mummy who stole paypal money)

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Sorry going back.. but the regatta ad at the end when she said ‘I let Isaac win’ you could see in his face like he just shrugged it off like ‘you didn’t but ok’... as though he gets spoken to and made to feel like that often.
And the way Josh spoke to Lula, made me feel quite sad, it’s clear that she’s his least favourite. I just want to go save her S & I (i know it’s not that bad, but they just seem the loveliest three out of the whole family)

as you were... xxx
 
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Sorry going back.. but the regatta ad at the end when she said it let Isaac’ win - you could see in his face like he just shrugged it off like ‘you didn’t but ok’... as though he gets spoken to and made to feel like that often.
And the way Josh spoke to Lula, made me feel quite sad, it’s clear that she’s his least favourite. I just want to go save her S & I (i know it’s not that bad, but they just seem the loveliest three out of the whole family)

as you were... xxx
I mean I know she was trying to joke as she said at the start in jest of course she would win but it just didn’t land correctly at all. She’s such a twit.
 
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Your background and people with similar backgrounds are why I get so pissed off with her. People have it so much worse and handle it so much better - but it’s always poor old me one minute and disgusting arrogance the next.
Thanks for what you did last night, stay strong xx
I’m now under the impression that the reason she harps on about her tragic past (apart from it being content and bringing her the attention she’s desperate for) is because it WASN'T that terrible. Does that make sense?

Because she’s some poor little middle class rich girl who had a privileged life (and still bloody does) so when mummy left she couldn’t cope with not having her own way, she did pretty normal teenage drink/drugs/sex (I mean I didn’t do those things but she clearly didn’t go completely off the rails), was pissed off with her dad so chose a foster care placement then decided to leave home young to punish her parents for not staying together.

Maybe I’m wrong but I don’t believe anything really terrible has ever happened to her because she is devoid of the perspective actual trauma brings.
 
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I see Astrid has enrolled at the Rachel Scambleton school of childcare. Plonk the baby on your lap, chuck a box of toys on the floor and stick the TV on 👌🏻

Also, her hands are 🤢 they look like old man smoker hands

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Has she dragged Joyce to the beauty salon? Didn't she do that last year too, my memory is tit. Also why? And why is she now dumping Wilbert off on other people, is this in readiness for number 7? So many questions😂
Scrap one of my questions, hubby just said Joyce must've been there for a manicure as well 😂
 
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Imagine being in your overdraft and having to spend the day getting your nails done and going for lunch...and paying a childminder. Life is tough.
 
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What boils my piss with last nights epic fail bandwagon is, when people were using incorrect hashtags for BLM and blackout posts, nobody batted an eyelid and saw it as being educated.
Here we are again with something for people to be educated on and rightly so, someone has pulled PTWM up on her incorrect use of the posts and asked her to use the hashtags yet instead of accepting this, the huns have all jumped in on the @Dinnerbag and she’s in the wrong and a bully?
What is the difference?
Or is it that when it was BLM, it was a black square and not a “sad behind the eyes” photo of poor Rach as a child. Hypocrisy from the huns.
I am also curious as to why comments have been removed last night, I saw briefly that someone asked if she would be continuing her work with DV and would she still be collecting donations - it went down pretty promptly before I could get a screen grab of it. I thought she didn’t remove comments or is it only PayPal related ones?
 
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What boils my piss with last nights epic fail bandwagon is, when people were using incorrect hashtags for BLM and blackout posts, nobody batted an eyelid and saw it as being educated.
Here we are again with something for people to be educated on and rightly so, someone has pulled PTWM up on her incorrect use of the posts and asked her to use the hashtags yet instead of accepting this, the huns have all jumped in on the @Dinnerbag and she’s in the wrong and a bully?
What is the difference?
Or is it that when it was BLM, it was a black square and not a “sad behind the eyes” photo of poor Rach as a child. Hypocrisy from the huns.
I am also curious as to why comments have been removed last night, I saw briefly that someone asked if she would be continuing her work with DV and would she still be collecting donations - it went down pretty promptly before I could get a screen grab of it. I thought she didn’t remove comments or is it only PayPal related ones?
If she says she’s working with DV which she did then she knows she will be asked again so probably regretted answering.
 
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She removed hell of a fair few comments last night. Even ones that just said it was for Turkish women. She obviously didn’t get the memo and thought everyone was a troll.
Thinking about things....now she’s brought it all up again about her mum leaving etc. You would think that she would move heaven and earth for the boys to see their mum. She is treating those boys exactly the same way she alleges she was treated by her dad and step mum. Especially when they have a mum that from what’s been said wants to see them. (Sorry to bring their mum up again, and if I’m rehashing old ground apologies)

thanks for the love today ladies. As I said it wasn’t a pity party it was hopefully for people to realise that it gets better. It won’t be crap forever xx 💕💕
 
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She removed hell of a fair few comments last night. Even ones that just said it was for Turkish women. She obviously didn’t get the memo and thought everyone was a troll.
Thinking about things....now she’s brought it all up again about her mum leaving etc. You would think that she would move heaven and earth for the boys to see their mum. She is treating those boys exactly the same way she alleges she was treated by her dad and step mum. Especially when they have a mum that from what’s been said wants to see them. (Sorry to bring their mum up again, and if I’m rehashing old ground apologies)

thanks for the love today ladies. As I said it wasn’t a pity party it was hopefully for people to realise that it gets better. It won’t be crap forever xx 💕💕
She removed quite innocuous ones too - one was really polite and asked how she had managed to move forwards with relationship with her muM but was deleted!
 
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Morning ladies,

Don’t know what got into me last night, think I was just really fed up with Rachel jumping on the newest band wagon without even looking into it properly. It’s quite an emotive subject for me.

brief run down of why I got annoyed.

Age 6 weeks old dad walked out on mum for another woman. He lived over the road, was quite happy for me to go to school in jumble sale uniform whilst my step sister went to school in brand new. Promised to take me on holiday, week before said I couldn’t go as step sister wanted to take a friend.

mum had a brief relationship with a man that kicked hell out of her and us. I remember as a child peeking out my bedroom door and seeing him hitting her over the head with a tin of dog food, he wouldn’t think twice about just punching us as kids. Mum soon kicked his arse out!!

age 11, next door neighbour threw his 2 week old baby down the stairs as he was a psycho and was jealous of the baby, I held that baby in my arms while we waited for the ambulance to come, unfortunately the little boy died 3 weeks later.

got into drink and drugs at age 13, did my GCSE’s stoned...still got 3 ds 6 Cs and a B lol.

met my ex husband at 17, had kids at 21 and 23, got married, then he changed. Became an alcoholic, used to spend all his wages on booze, I racked up so much debt just feeding and clothing the kids. I didn’t eat so the kids could...was a lovely size 10....compared to my size 16 now!! Got a part time job, but would get home on a night and he would be passed out, pissed himself on the sofa and the little ones would still be running riot around the house. He would txt me constantly whilst I was at work, I was a slag, tit mum etc etc. He threatened to kill me several times. He was very manipulative as people thought he was amazing, and used to say how lucky I was to be married to him.

age 29 my beautiful baby sister committed suicide. My ex husband used that and used to say there’s no wonder she killed herself having a sister like me etc etc. Worst day of my life having to break the news to my mum that her youngest daughter had killed herself, then having to go round to my dear old nans and tell her, that broke my heart .

It took me another 4 years to finally break away, I got a job as a dinner bag so I didn’t need him to look after the kids. Then I kicked his arse out. Left thousands of pounds of debt im still trying to pay off 5 years later. Even when we split he sent abusive messages every night, turned a lot of friends against me, tried to turn my family against me. Turned up one night with his new drug addict girlfriend. Called me a tit mum, amongst other things, it turned physical, and he broke my leg in 3 places. I phoned my friend after crawling into the house, she took one look at me and packed the kids up to go to her house while I went to the hospital. I had met a wonderful man 3 months previous to this and were still dating, he came to the hospital with me, and basically moved in because I wasn’t allowed to walk for 6mths. Had an op 2 days before Christmas. Ex then tried to turn kids against my new boyfriend. Daughter didn’t speak to him for ages. I didn’t go to the police, I’m stupid I know...but I didn’t want the kids knowing their dad was a bastard. I wanted them to be old enough to make up their own mind. Which they have, slowly, they have realised since the lock down started he’s seen them 3 times, for an hour. He stopped me taking them abroad on holiday, refused to give me permission to take them out of the country for 2 weeks. Ended up doing it, and we had the time of our lives. He pays me £100 a month for both of them in maintenance, he walked away with £4K in cash and both cars...and it still wasn’t enough.

I had a mental breakdown 3 years ago, it was hard but I climbed back to the top



Now 5 years later, I am so in love with my wonderful other half who saw me at my worse. My kids adore him. We have struggled through this pandemic me being furloughed and him unable to work. We have been on the bones of our arse. But my kids are amazing and thriving. I’ve had a promotion at work and now an assistant catering manager, over seeing 10 primaries and a secondary school.



Life is on the up!!!



This is why I get triggered by all the crap she does, this wasn’t a woe is me post, it was a reassurance to anyone struggling it gets better.



Sorry to everyone that read that and didn’t scroll by, be thankful I didn’t embellish like our Rachel does....hey I should write a book!!!



Love you all xxx
That was heartbreaking to read 💔 rancid hasn't got a clue about the true traumas people suffer....I too lost my younger brother to suicide, you sound like such a brave lady , sending a virtual hug and high five for your achievements 🤗✋💋
 
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I honestly don’t believe sia is gonna be wilbys childminder, I think she’s having everyone on and taking the piss, like I used to do when my friends husband used to take the day off work and have my boy when he was younger and I was at work. (Both Xbox freaks before you all think it’s weird that a bloke babysat for me)
 
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